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Just Marriage is a custom officiant service based in Tulsa, Oklahoma, dedicated to providing meaningful services that celebrate love in all its forms. Owner Rev. Bob Lawrence is an openly gay ordained minister of the United Church of Christ, deeply passionate about crafting ceremonies that honor the couple's unique love. Under Bob's caring guidance, to-be-weds can enjoy a touching, personalized celebration that keeps their individuality at its heart.

Services Offered

Just Marriage provides mindful services to reflect the commitments and relationship of the newlyweds-to-be. Bob is available to provide guidance and assistance in crafting a ceremony that holds space for the couple's beliefs, family arrangements, and most valued traditions. As the former Executive Director of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, he has performed a wide range of ceremonies in various venue settings, from outdoor handfastings to church-based celebrations. Bob can perform legally-recognized unions and unions without legal recognition throughout the USA. Further options include:

  • Basic solemnization of marriage
  • Services in sign language
  • Basic photography
  • Rehearsal attendance
  • A unity candle
  • Communion service
  • Wedding package discounts
  • LGBTQ+-owned
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Frequently asked questions

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Which of the following are included in the price?

Ceremony Rehearsal

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What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

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Michelle B. Sent on 02/04/2022
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Perfect Match

We were so happy to have Bob handle our super simple marriage! He gave us exactly what we wanted and was incredibly sweet! Definitely recommend!!
Calvin H. Sent on 04/04/2021
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Wow blown away

I can't thank you for helping me and Steve through this transition in life .You came thru for and we are forever grateful. Calvin and Steve
Gregg S. Sent on 10/02/2020
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Nice and professional.

Bob was really nice and professional. He responded to all of our emails and answered any questions we had. He gave us a lot of information that we couldn’t find elsewhere.
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Bob Lawrence
Bob Lawrence

Although I have been legally allowed to perform weddings since 1976, I only performed weddings for a few family members and friends until 2014, when same-gender marriages became legal in Oklahoma. As an openly gay minister, I would not perform weddings until I could perform them for all members of my congregation. (Two of the four women who sued to make such marriages legal were members of my church in Tulsa.) Since then I have officiated at over 200 weddings for couples regardless of gender or faith, with the only requirement being love.


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