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idosantabarbara

English
Ceremony Rehearsal
Interfaith
Civil Union
Claire
Jessica
Nicholas
Justin
Dr. Fathy

Recommended by 100% of couples

About this vendor

Barbra Valentine, owner and founder of Idosantabarbara, is a renowned wedding officiant in Santa Barbara, California, who crafts a personally written ceremony for each couple. As an officiant for over 25 years, Barbra's goal is to help you create a heartfelt wedding ceremony that truly captures the special love between you and your partner. As a relaxed and very experienced "no-drama officiant," she will take care of you from concept, through rehearsal, and the wedding day itself, so you are able to relax and enjoy your amazing wedding day. All forms of love are honored.

Services Offered

Through Barbra's relaxed way of meeting with you personally, discussing options, planning, and premarital counseling, Idosantabarbara will create the unique wedding ceremony of your dreams. Barbra prides herself on presiding over a variety of wedding styles, including non-religious, interfaith, same gender weddings, and vow renewals. For religious ceremonies, she is happy to work with couples of the following religions and beliefs:

  • Baptist
  • Catholic
  • Episcopalian
  • Hindu
  • Lutheran
  • Non-denominational
  • Presbyterian
  • Taoist
  • Anglican
  • Buddhist
  • Earth-based
  • Evangelical
  • Jewish
  • Methodist
  • Orthodox Christian
  • Quaker

Features

Woman-owned

Just me

Experience

  • 19 years in business

  • We speak English

Links

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FAQ

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

Yes

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$590

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$150

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Taoist

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA

What languages do you speak?

English

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Barbra is a warm, professional officiant who crafts deeply personal, heartfelt ceremonies that move guests. She’s attentive and flexible with last‑minute changes, connecting quickly with couples. Reviewers said her words made the day unforgettable and highly recommend her.

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Barbra is a warm, professional officiant who crafts deeply personal, heartfelt ceremonies that move guests. She’s attentive and flexible with last‑minute changes, connecting quickly with couples. Reviewers said her words made the day unforgettable and highly recommend her.

Claire
Claire Sent on 08/17/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Thanks Barbra :)

Barbra was kind, professional, and so thoughtful - we were so grateful to have her officiate our intimate 20 person wedding at San Ysidro Ranch. She took the time to get to know us (we met with her at her home in SB) and thoughtfully integrated our stories that my now-husband and I shared about each other. A close friend attending the ceremony asked if we had known Barbra for years, which is a true testament to her ability to officiate ceremonies that are truly unique and reflective of each couple she works with. Our wedding day was wonderful in every way, and we are so glad Barbra was a part of it.
Jessica
Jessica Sent on 04/27/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Barbra was amazing!

From the very beginning, Barbra brought such warmth, care, and intentionality to our wedding experience. Our story is a little less traditional and she was able to transform it into a ceremony that was personal, heartfelt, and beautifully written. Our guests were teary-eyed the entire time and still haven’t stopped talking about it.

Her kindness and professionalism extend far beyond her craft. When faced with a challenging interaction from another vendor, she handled it with remarkable grace and composure, which only reinforced how exceptional she is.

We are beyond grateful we chose her to officiate our wedding. She made our ceremony feel authentic, meaningful, and unforgettable in every way.
Nicholas
Nicholas Sent on 01/17/2026
5 out of 5 rating

A Meaningful and Unforgettable Ceremony

It’s hard to find the words to describe our experience with Barbra as our officiant. From the very beginning, she captured the essence of our relationship so beautifully. When we first met to review how the ceremony would open, we instantly knew the connection was meant to be.

When everything came to life on our wedding day, the ceremony became a heartfelt reflection of our journey together and filled us with joy and excitement for the path ahead.

We were truly blessed to have met and worked with Barbra. She will always be a meaningful part of our special day, and we highly recommend her to any couple looking for an officiant who brings authenticity, warmth, and heart to their ceremony.
Justin
Justin Sent on 05/13/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Wedding Officiant

Barbra was an amazing wedding officiant. She was punctual, she paid attention to our wants, needs, and nuances as a couple. We also connected with her on a personal level, which was pleasant and comfortable.
C
Cassandra Sent on 12/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

A Dream Officiant

Barbara was an absolute dream to work with as our officiant! From the very beginning, she radiated positivity, love, and light, making the entire experience so special. She took the time to truly get to know us, which made our ceremony incredibly personal and heartfelt.

Her warmth and professionalism made everything so easy, and we always felt supported and cared for throughout the process. On our wedding day, Barbara’s words perfectly captured our love story and set the tone for a beautiful, unforgettable celebration.

We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant and are so grateful to have had her as part of our big day. If you’re looking for someone who will make your ceremony unique, meaningful, and full of love, Barbara is the one!
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Erin Sent on 11/30/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful, personal ceremony

Barbra curated a beautiful, personal ceremony that our families haven’t stopped talking about. Barbra took the story of our relationship and other personal anecdotes and was able to convey our story and emotions in such a wonderful way to our guests. She made our day so sentimental and memorable, and we are so grateful that she was a part of our special day.
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Ashlee Sent on 09/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

1000% recommend!

Barbra is absolute Gem and we are so lucky to have found her! She added that personal touch to our ceremony, was professional and warm and we had so many compliments on how lovely she made our ceremony. I would highly recommend her, she truly was the cherry on top of our day!
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Alexander Sent on 06/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Nothing Short of Spectacular

Barbra is the perfect wedding officiant! She not only shared great stories about us but also got the attendees engaged, laughing and crying at the same time! We are extremely happy with her services from beginning to end.
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T Mul Sent on 12/25/2023
5 out of 5 rating

successful hail mary

One can plan a wedding to the finest of details, but there will be things you don’t plan on and you have to roll with the punches. The day before our wedding, our initial officiant (a relative) dropped out due to his own personal struggles. At the “final hour”, we were left to find an officiant who we felt represented us. Luckily, my wedding coordinator knew Barbra and put us in touch. Barbra called us that evening for a discussion on what we were looking for. By the sound of her measured and calm voice, we knew we were in good hands. Just minutes before the ceremony we met Barbra. My now husband and I felt the same about her. We both felt we already knew her and it was as if we had a hundred conversations beforehand, when in fact we only had one. She did not disappoint at the ceremony. She absolutely captured the essence of what we wanted to convey with eloquence and heart. There was a moment when I heard Barbra’s voice shift. It was then I knew she wasn’t just our officiant. She was a friend and was meant to be there all along.
Dr. Fathy
Dr. L. Sent on 11/03/2023
5 out of 5 rating

An Unforgettable Journey with Barbra: A Heartfelt Elopement Experience

Barbra is an absolute gem! We can't express how thankful we are for having her as our officiant. She brought so much warmth and personal touch to our wedding day that it became an unforgettable experience.

What sets Barbra apart is her unique and caring approach. She made our elopement so much more than just a ceremony. When I needed to adjust the time, she showed understanding and flexibility, ensuring our day was stress-free and perfect.

She's not just an officiant; she's a true friend who made our wedding day filled with love and joy. We're more than happy to share our wonderful experience with her. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for being a part of our journey.

With love and gratitude,
Lucy and Ryan Devera
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2011 Winner
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Barbara loves what she does - shes a natural and a great pleasure.

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Absolutely! Excellent professional work. A pleasure to work together.

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Barbra is a wonderful, compassionate and caring officiant and is a joy to work with. She will add a personal touch to your wedding and will do a beautiful job getting you married!

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