You couldn't ask for a more beautiful place to get married than the Harwelden. I loved every room and aspect of it from the heavy wooden doors to the stain glass windows. It was fantastic and I got lots of compliments from friends and family.

What a gorgeous mansion! Our wedding was small (30 person guest list) and we did the ceremony and a luncheon there. It was perfect! The curator did a phenomenal job having everything set up for us exactly the way I wanted it when we arrived for set up.

A few downsides- we had limited set up time. Your time slot includes set-up and tear down, so book for all day! We had 30 people, and it seemed pretty full. If you're just doing a reception, you can have more- but I wouldn't do a ceremony with many more than 50 guests. They process their credit cards once a month. We gave them a credit card number for our second payment, but it didn't get processed for about 3 weeks- so it hit our account when we weren't expecting it!

But the staff was friendly, they were really flexible with arrangement of the venue, and were overly accomodating! My caterer commented that their kitchen was amazing for a caterer's kitchen. My photographer loved it- so many great details and locations to get pics!

In my opinion- best value for a wedding venue in the Tulsa area! Definitely, give them some serious consideration for your event! I have no regrets!

This is an absolutely amazing place. Very nice elegant furniture and decor but also has updated modern tech. They really kept the grounds and inside very nice and clean. We did a Saturday morning elopement package but also added a room for the night before. The room was amazing and super nice and luxurious but made having a wedding there the next day so much easier. Would definitely recommend.
The Harwelden team members were so great the whole time. Starting with just email inquiries Amber was super responsive and answered all of our questions and helped prepare and coordinate everything. Then Haley showed us the property and was super helpful on assisting for some pictures. From the time we arrived Dwayne was helping us unload to setup to making sure we remembered all the things we wanted to do. He also helped us clean and prepare last second things on the fly. Finally Linda made an amazing breakfast with prefect ham egg and cheese croissant.
During Covid times this was the best venue I could have ever imagined having in Tulsa. It was a great venue, location, and team. This place should be at the top of the venue lists on all the Tulsa wedding site apps.