This is an absolutely amazing place. Very nice elegant furniture and decor but also has updated modern tech. They really kept the grounds and inside very nice and clean. We did a Saturday morning elopement package but also added a room for the night before. The room was amazing and super nice and luxurious but made having a wedding there the next day so much easier. Would definitely recommend.
The Harwelden team members were so great the whole time. Starting with just email inquiries Amber was super responsive and answered all of our questions and helped prepare and coordinate everything. Then Haley showed us the property and was super helpful on assisting for some pictures. From the time we arrived Dwayne was helping us unload to setup to making sure we remembered all the things we wanted to do. He also helped us clean and prepare last second things on the fly. Finally Linda made an amazing breakfast with prefect ham egg and cheese croissant.
During Covid times this was the best venue I could have ever imagined having in Tulsa. It was a great venue, location, and team. This place should be at the top of the venue lists on all the Tulsa wedding site apps.

I got married at Holy Family Cathedral and then had my reception at the Harwelden in July of 2014. I absolutely loved the space! We had a larger reception than is normal for the Harwelden, but they were very flexible and allowed me to come up with a design plan to incorporate enough tables. I ended up using the dining room, living room, and sunroom for tables, as well as the balcony, with the buffet in the main hallway. Tables were later moved out of the sunroom so that we could use that space for a live band and dance. It was a lovely place to have a reception! It might be best for smaller weddings, though, as I do think ours was a bit crowded (but still lovely and wonderful!)

this place was wonderful for our wedding venue! it was so beautiful

We are THRILLED to be having our summer wedding at the STUNNING Harwelden Mansion. We love the option of being able to hire our own vendors and the grounds are just beautiful! My fiances parents were married here 20 years ago and we look forward to carrying on the tradition!

Our planner/photographer was absolutely phenomenal. I'm pretty sure we had no idea what we were doing (hell, who does?) and Michael kept us going and had great ideas for pictures. He is a very talented guy, and though I haven't seen pictures yet, I know they will be beautiful.

Harwelden provided the perfect backdrop for our wedding. The décor and architectural features of the mansion are so beautiful and elegant that it doesn't require much more in the way of decorations.

You guys made our wedding a total hit! Michael put any worries we may have had completely to rest! Thank you for allowing us to use your incredible venue, and for all your help!!!!

Becky and Michael were both so sweet and helpful. They went out of their way to make sure everything was perfect. The venue is absolutely beautiful! It was perfect for my wedding

You couldn't ask for a more beautiful place to get married than the Harwelden. I loved every room and aspect of it from the heavy wooden doors to the stain glass windows. It was fantastic and I got lots of compliments from friends and family.

Enjoyed every minute of working with the team at Harwelden Mansion! Adrian Events is very easy to work with and so helpful with anything you may need. Overall, my husband and I had a great experience with having our Wedding reception at Harwelden Mansion!