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About this vendor

Fun, Relaxed & Meaningful Wedding Ceremonies

Specializing in:
• Last-Minute Weddings
• Beach Weddings
• Elopements & Intimate Ceremonies
• Military Weddings
• Personalized Non-Religious Ceremonies

Helping couples create ceremonies that feel natural, personal, emotionally real, and enjoyable — without feeling overly formal or scripted.

I help guide couples through the ceremony process from the very beginning with:
• Ceremony ideas
• Vow inspiration
• Sample ceremony flows
• Marriage license guidance
• Calm support throughout the planning process

With a background in San Diego radio, television, weddings, DJ entertainment, and live events, I bring a calm, comfortable presence that helps ceremonies flow naturally with warmth, humor, confidence, and heart.

Every ceremony is personalized around your personalities, your relationship, and your story — because every couple is different, and every ceremony should reflect that.

If you’re looking for a ceremony experience that feels fun, relaxed, meaningful, guided, and genuinely you, I’d love to hear your story.

If a picture is worth a thousand words, what is a couple of demo videos worth? Please see here on Wedding Wire!

Gary

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Just me

Experience

  • 32 years in business

  • We speak English

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FAQ

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$299

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA

What languages do you speak?

English

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Gary provided thoughtful, professional, and personalized officiant services, taking time to learn each couple and tailor ceremonies. He communicated clearly, attended rehearsals, and created a calm, heartfelt atmosphere even amid logistical challenges. Reviewers also praised his decades of DJ experience and ability to get guests dancing.

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Gary provided thoughtful, professional, and personalized officiant services, taking time to learn each couple and tailor ceremonies. He communicated clearly, attended rehearsals, and created a calm, heartfelt atmosphere even amid logistical challenges. Reviewers also praised his decades of DJ experience and ability to get guests dancing.

Rebeca
Rebeca Sent on 05/28/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Beyond what we expected!

My husband and I planned our wedding in one day to get married the next day, and Gary was the first one to pick up our call. From the start he was super helpful, and went above and beyond to make our day special.  He asked me all the important questions, such as expectations, etc, that I had not even thought of. I would have been ok with a basic ceremony, but Gary suggested making it personal to us. He asked us questions to get to know us and our relationship, He sent us links to different vow writing examples, and he communicated with us throughout the whole planning process. I could not be more happier with how our ceremony turned out. He was very professional, kind, and military friendly! I can not recommend him enough. Thank you, Gary, for making our day special!
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Barbara Sent on 05/22/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Gary Kelley

I have had Gary Kelley host many of my events....from my own wedding, to a military ball, and other social functions. Gary is the utmost professional, and plays the BEST variety of music! He welcomes music requests from guests, and fulfills them as much as possible. I would 100% recommend him. You will NOT be disappointed!!
Trever
Trever Sent on 05/15/2026
5 out of 5 rating

A Thoughtful and Incredible Officiant

Gary Kelley was an incredible wedding officiant, and we could not have asked for a better person to lead our ceremony. From the beginning, he was thoughtful, attentive, and genuinely invested in making our ceremony feel personal and meaningful. He attended our rehearsal, collaborated with us on the script, and made sure every part of the ceremony reflected us as a couple.

What stood out most was how Gary kept the focus entirely on the bride and groom. He created a ceremony that felt heartfelt, intimate, and special without ever making it about himself. You could truly tell that our wedding meant something to him too, and that care came through in every word he spoke.

We are so grateful for the role Gary played in our day. He helped create one of the most memorable and meaningful parts of our wedding, and we would highly recommend him to any couple looking for a thoughtful, professional, and genuinely caring officiant.
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Gwen Sent on 05/12/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful vendor

5 Stars for the GOAT of San Diego 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩 Gary Kelley is a San Diego treasure! He knows how to connect to the guests! Gary does his homework to make every wedding customized for the two of you! As far as Music, Gary will get the party going with decades experience on the radio as a very popular DJ.  He’s fun, friendly and professional. Gary has done my wedding, our company, Christmas party, three high school, reunions, several friends weddings, my daughter’s, sweet, 16 birthday party to name a few. I would never use anyone else. Plus, he’s extremely knowledgeable with all types of music and artists. and as a bonus, he is even a wedding officiant. Look no further!   Gwen J 🤩
Keri
Keri Sent on 05/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

My wedding officiant Gary!

Gary was truly an exceptional wedding officiant, and we feel incredibly lucky to have had him as part of our special day. From the very beginning to the end of the ceremony, he guided us with such kindness, warmth, and professionalism that immediately put us at ease!!

He sent us a voice recording beforhand, and we loved it. At our wedding, his voice was clear, calm, and soothing, which made a huge difference during such an emotional moment. He led us through our vows in a way that felt natural and heartfelt, allowing us to stay present and truly take in every second. Many of our guests later mentioned how much they appreciated his gentle tone and the way he carried the ceremony—it created such a beautiful and intimate atmosphere ´͈ ᵕ `͈ ♡°◌̊

Our wedding day itself was quite hectic, especially with the unexpected challenges of moving between outdoor and indoor spaces due to the heat (100 degreees!). Despite everything going on, Gary remained composed, attentive, and incredibly thoughtful throughout. He handled every situation with grace and made sure the ceremony flowed smoothly, which meant so so much to all of us.

We’re still waiting to receive our wedding photos and videos from the photographer, so it’s a little disappointing that we don’t have those moments captured just yet—but even without them, we clearly remember how wonderful Gary was and how beautifully he led our ceremony.

What stood out the most was not just his professionalism, but his genuine care really. He didn’t feel like just an officiant doing a job—he felt like someone who truly cared about making our ceremony meaningful and memorable ❤︎ꔛ❜

We will never forget this day, and Gary played a huge role in making it so special. We’ve already recommended him to friends and family, and we would wholeheartedly recommend him to any couple looking for a wedding officiant who is both professional and genuinely kind. Thank you so much Gary!!
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