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About this vendor

Your ceremony should feel like you—not like one that could have been written for anyone else. Every ceremony I create begins with your story.

Your Story. Your Ceremony. Your Moment.

Gary Kelley is a Wedding Officiant, ordained minister, and award-winning Wedding DJ and Emcee with more than four decades of experience helping couples celebrate some of the most important moments of their lives.

Many couples—and often their parents—recognize Gary from his years on San Diego radio, where every station he worked for reached #1 in the ratings, as well as from his work in local television at ABC 10 News. Long before becoming an officiant, Gary spent decades helping couples celebrate their wedding days as a professional DJ, Emcee, and host.

Today, he brings that experience to a much more personal role.

Gary believes the best wedding ceremonies aren't about scripts or formalities. They're about the two people standing in front of him.

He begins by learning your story—your personalities, your relationship, the moments that brought you together, and how you want your ceremony to feel. From there, he creates a ceremony that is personal, warm, natural, and uniquely yours.

Heartfelt and emotional. Lighthearted and relaxed. Traditional, faith-centered, or beautifully simple. There is no one right way to get married.

Gary's approach combines professionalism with warmth, humor, sincerity, and genuine care. His goal is for you to feel comfortable, confident, and completely present when the moment arrives.

That moment belongs to you.

His job is to help you enjoy it.

And when the ceremony is over, Gary guides you and your witnesses through the marriage license, making sure everything is completed and signed correctly. He then promptly mails it to the County Clerk with tracking, so you know this important final step has been taken care of.

A note about reviews: Gary's WeddingPro review count began from scratch when he joined the platform, because decades of previous client reviews cannot simply be transferred to a new WeddingPro profile. The reviews you see here are new; his wedding experience spans more than four decades.

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  • 42 years in business

  • We speak English

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FAQ

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$200

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviews of Gary Kelley Weddings

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Multiple reviews praise the officiant/DJ for warm, professional, and highly personalized ceremonies with clear, caring communication. He provided great music, handled last‑minute changes calmly, and created intimate, memorable moments. Reviewers strongly recommend him for weddings and other events.

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Multiple reviews praise the officiant/DJ for warm, professional, and highly personalized ceremonies with clear, caring communication. He provided great music, handled last‑minute changes calmly, and created intimate, memorable moments. Reviewers strongly recommend him for weddings and other events.

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John Sent on 09/21/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Great tunes, great times

Gary did a superb job of managing some new music for him I had selected, especially at the dinner hour when I was looking for some dreamy and quieter piano music. He ramped it up later for the dancing and even got my wife to do a solo dancing performance I hadn’t seen in our 50 years of marriage. Well done, Gary.
Deborah
Deborah Sent on 07/13/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Gary Kelley was the best of the best!

Gary Kelley is wonderful! We are so glad we chose him to marry us. He is a super nice man very knowledgeable , very affordable and pretty witty as well! Nobody would ever be sorry they hired Gary to do the honors at their special occasion. He made us feel special from start to finish!
Irina
Irina Sent on 06/29/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Celebration of Life officiant

We retained the services of Gary to oversee the celebration of life for my late mother-in-law. Gary was so kind and professional and caring on our initial phone intake. He sent us details of how everything would go and a questionnaire so that he could get to understand the life of my mother-in-law more thoroughly, to be able to officiate the ceremony to the best of his ability.

We provided him with the obituary and answered some questions, and Gary made sure to have all the pronunciations of certain words correct. He arrived on the day of the event on time, actually early, and was well-dressed and presentable. He made everyone feel welcome and delivered the tribute so perfectly. He had everyone feeling that he was part of the family.

I would highly recommend Gary for all kinds of officiating, from weddings to celebrations of life and beyond.
Rebeca
Rebeca Sent on 05/28/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Beyond what we expected!

My husband and I planned our wedding in one day to get married the next day, and Gary was the first one to pick up our call. From the start he was super helpful, and went above and beyond to make our day special.  He asked me all the important questions, such as expectations, etc, that I had not even thought of. I would have been ok with a basic ceremony, but Gary suggested making it personal to us. He asked us questions to get to know us and our relationship, He sent us links to different vow writing examples, and he communicated with us throughout the whole planning process. I could not be more happier with how our ceremony turned out. He was very professional, kind, and military friendly! I can not recommend him enough. Thank you, Gary, for making our day special!
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Barbara Sent on 05/22/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Gary Kelley

I have had Gary Kelley host many of my events....from my own wedding, to a military ball, and other social functions. Gary is the utmost professional, and plays the BEST variety of music! He welcomes music requests from guests, and fulfills them as much as possible. I would 100% recommend him. You will NOT be disappointed!!
Trever
Trever Sent on 05/15/2026
5 out of 5 rating

A Thoughtful and Incredible Officiant

Gary Kelley was an incredible wedding officiant, and we could not have asked for a better person to lead our ceremony. From the beginning, he was thoughtful, attentive, and genuinely invested in making our ceremony feel personal and meaningful. He attended our rehearsal, collaborated with us on the script, and made sure every part of the ceremony reflected us as a couple.

What stood out most was how Gary kept the focus entirely on the bride and groom. He created a ceremony that felt heartfelt, intimate, and special without ever making it about himself. You could truly tell that our wedding meant something to him too, and that care came through in every word he spoke.

We are so grateful for the role Gary played in our day. He helped create one of the most memorable and meaningful parts of our wedding, and we would highly recommend him to any couple looking for a thoughtful, professional, and genuinely caring officiant.
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Gwen Sent on 05/12/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful vendor

5 Stars for the GOAT of San Diego 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩 Gary Kelley is a San Diego treasure! He knows how to connect to the guests! Gary does his homework to make every wedding customized for the two of you! As far as Music, Gary will get the party going with decades experience on the radio as a very popular DJ.  He’s fun, friendly and professional. Gary has done my wedding, our company, Christmas party, three high school, reunions, several friends weddings, my daughter’s, sweet, 16 birthday party to name a few. I would never use anyone else. Plus, he’s extremely knowledgeable with all types of music and artists. and as a bonus, he is even a wedding officiant. Look no further!   Gwen J 🤩
Keri
Keri Sent on 05/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

My wedding officiant Gary!

Gary was truly an exceptional wedding officiant, and we feel incredibly lucky to have had him as part of our special day. From the very beginning to the end of the ceremony, he guided us with such kindness, warmth, and professionalism that immediately put us at ease!!

He sent us a voice recording beforhand, and we loved it. At our wedding, his voice was clear, calm, and soothing, which made a huge difference during such an emotional moment. He led us through our vows in a way that felt natural and heartfelt, allowing us to stay present and truly take in every second. Many of our guests later mentioned how much they appreciated his gentle tone and the way he carried the ceremony—it created such a beautiful and intimate atmosphere ´͈ ᵕ `͈ ♡°◌̊

Our wedding day itself was quite hectic, especially with the unexpected challenges of moving between outdoor and indoor spaces due to the heat (100 degreees!). Despite everything going on, Gary remained composed, attentive, and incredibly thoughtful throughout. He handled every situation with grace and made sure the ceremony flowed smoothly, which meant so so much to all of us.

We’re still waiting to receive our wedding photos and videos from the photographer, so it’s a little disappointing that we don’t have those moments captured just yet—but even without them, we clearly remember how wonderful Gary was and how beautifully he led our ceremony.

What stood out the most was not just his professionalism, but his genuine care really. He didn’t feel like just an officiant doing a job—he felt like someone who truly cared about making our ceremony meaningful and memorable ❤︎ꔛ❜

We will never forget this day, and Gary played a huge role in making it so special. We’ve already recommended him to friends and family, and we would wholeheartedly recommend him to any couple looking for a wedding officiant who is both professional and genuinely kind. Thank you so much Gary!!
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