Talk to multiple planners to find the one you are comfortable with, whether you have exact ideas or no clue. It's what they do for a living and you'll (hopefully) get a good feeling from the right one. That's how we settled on EEbyT.

Know what you are looking for in a wedding planner. Someone to handle it all and you just approve/disapprove while writing checks or someone to execute your ideas/plans. We used EEbyT to plan it all and there's no one better, in my mind. Or you can ask our 185+ guests who all said "wow, best wedding ever".

I don’t write many reviews, but feel compelled to write this one as it describes a wonderful experience on a very wonderful day. My daughter got married on September 4th at Ralston White Retreat in Mill Valley, California. The location, while incredibly beautiful, was a challenge from the start as she and her fiancé moved unexpectedly to Boston, my husband and I live north of Sacramento, and the groom’s parents live in Southern California. None of us lived anywhere near Mill Valley and didn’t know the local vendors there.

Luckily, through a series of interviews and recommendations we connected with Tony White and his team at Extreme Elegance. Tony led us through the whole planning process. He brings amazing ideas, but is also very flexible in incorporating your ideas. He works within your budget and comes up with creative ideas to give you the aesthetic you are looking for without just spending more and more money. He is patient yet focused and keeps you moving forward through the preparations.

Then the day of he and his team keep everyone calm, keep things moving, and somehow bring everything together. From the big things like managing all the other vendors to the little things like making sure that the bridal party has something to eat while getting hair and makeup done, it’s all taken care of.

And he has access to amazing professionals that work with him. Dennis Dizon, the photographer we chose, is an incredible artist. We were blown away by his work. But Tony will also work with the vendors you choose, like Insalata our amazing caterer, and manages to build relationships with them as well so the whole event goes smoothly

I cannot imagine a more perfect day. And I couldn’t be more thrilled that we had Tony helping us make it perfect.

Tony facilitated a beautiful, elegant, yet affordable wedding for my daughter. Everyone swears that I spent way more than I actually did, due to Tony's expertise and experience in the field. He skillfully matches the vendors to the client based upon the clients vision, budget, and then applies his personal classy touch. What you get is unbelievable professionalism.

From planning the wedding, to the wedding and the following day, Tony and team were always available and ready to assist.

Tony White and his team are second to none! His attention to detail, as well as extensive knowledge of the wedding industry makes him the best person to have at your side while planning your wedding! I was very impressed with the level of service, heart, creativity demonstrated by Tony and each member of his team!

Tony White is not just a wedding planner, he's a friend, life-saver, confidante, therapist, magician, and will forever be an honorary member of our family. My husband Matt and I found Tony White after booking the City Club of San Francisco for our wedding -- we did a Google search of the venue and found pictures of a beautiful winter wedding he had planned there earlier that year. At the time, it was mid-2012 and my fiance and I were law students with empty pockets and big dreams. Tony found it in his heart to negotiate a rate we could afford.

Throughout late 2012 and all of 2013, Tony worked with us to plan our wedding that took place on January 18, 2014. As with any wedding, there were times when I felt overwhelmed because of drama but talking these issues out with Tony always made me laugh and take things less seriously. In mid-2013, we dropped a bomb on Tony -- we were expecting our first child, and he was due only four weeks before the wedding. Tony needed a second to process this development (we were at brunch) but after the initial shock wore off, he did absolutely everything in his power to assure me the wedding would still be amazing.

The wedding itself was magnificent, and truly the best day of our lives. Tony and his staff, along with the vendors he helped us bring on board, worked together in perfect harmony and didn't miss a single detail. Tony worked with the reverend at Grace Cathedral to make sure the ceremony was just what we wanted. The fully-decorated dinner hall took our breaths away. We had Greek dancing after our wonderful dinner. Bouquets were in gold julep cups to honor Matt's Kentucky roots. Everything was beautiful shades of red and gold, and it felt like a true San Francisco winter wedding. Our wedding day was completely stress-free, and our guests are still talking about how it was one of the classiest, most thoughtful and charming weddings they have ever been to.