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Donna Rose Gardner - Honey In The Heart Ceremonies

English
Ceremony Rehearsal
Interfaith
Civil Union

Why couples loved this vendor

  • Marriage License & Certificate
  • Seasoned Professional
  • Officiant
  • Great Planner
Jessica
Liz
Nate
Mallory
Alisha

Recommended by 100% of couples

About this vendor

Since 2010, I’ve brought my heart and creative writing talent into designing wedding ceremonies as an ordained non-denominational multicultural officiant based in Santa Cruz, California. I bring honey into the heart when I perform ceremonies with warmth, joy, and a sprinkling of humor. Your love is unique because the two of you are. I love this about couples! They come together as two separate individuals who find each other, fall delightedly in love, and decide to step into this deeper commitment. In doing this, they are open to all the possibilities that lay ahead of them being united in their strengths that they contribute to one another with a love that continues to deepen. I believe on the day that you join together more love is brought into the world. I’d be honored to help you, the two of you!

Many couples have expressed appreciation for my calm presence, flexibility, and knowledge, which I can share from my vast experience performing ceremonies that have incorporated differing cultural influences and components that make their ceremonies more meaningful than the typical ones that they’ve attended in the past.

Services Offered: You have a choice of wedding ceremonies, ranging from civil union, interfaith, non-religious, and modern spirituality. Couples from all beliefs, cultural/ethnic backgrounds, and LGBTQIA+ are embraced.

Here's a description:

  • Keep it Simple, Please - You want an easy, simple, and sweet ceremony. We talk about your beliefs, and I perform a beautifully crafted pre-written ceremony that comes from my heart! You can bring your own vows to read to each other or choose from samples that I provide.
  • Sweet and Easy - Your desire is to have a ceremony that’s filled with an honest simplicity that allows you to be fully present in the moment. You can choose from a variety of pre-written ceremonies that give you the perfect words to convey your love. I have several ideas for additional components that you can add, such as hand-fasting, using an Oathing Stone for your vows, and a Wine Ceremony. Samples are also provided for your vows, or you can write your own, and I’ll make keepsake vow booklets for you to read from. Want to edit the wording – no problem!
  • Bespoke - Your unique love story will be woven into your ceremony to make it even more personal. The offerings in the Sweet and Easy Ceremony are included. I’m open to including additional elements that you’d like to include or having edits that you may want to make.
  • We Want the Whole Package – Perfect for an Elopement with 20 or fewer in Attendance
  • This package includes the Keep It Simple Please Ceremony, plus a professional photographer. You can upgrade to the Sweet and Easy ceremony for an additional fee. The photographer is there for one hour, starting with your ceremony and staying afterward to capture more beautiful memories. You receive the photos in a downloadable format - you own them!
  • There are many beautiful and romantic spots that I know of in the Redwood Forest, or you can say, “I do,” while overlooking the beach at sunset. I also offer an exclusive elopement package in collaboration with Roaring Camp Railroads in Felton at their beautiful private setting at the Big Trees Grove.

Donna is available via phone, text, email, or Zoom to chat in more detail. Let's chat soon!

Wishing you Honey in the Heart - Donna Rose Gardner (she/her)

What You'll Love About Donna Rose Gardner - Honey In The Heart Ceremonies

Donna's words strike a chord with everyone who hears them, beautifully celebrating the couple before her. Throughout the planning process, she takes the time to get to know each partner and guide them through with care. Read through the reviews, and you will see the impact she has on people's special days.

Features

Woman-owned

Experience

  • 15 years in business

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Weddings with this vendor

Henry & Alex's wedding
Henry & Alex
17 photos
Nobu & Yuri's wedding
Nobu & Yuri
12 photos
Duane & Alisa's wedding
Duane & Alisa
10 photos
Jamielou & Evier's wedding
Jamielou & Evier
26 photos
Liana & Tim's wedding
Liana & Tim
35 photos

FAQ

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$150

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Earth-Based
No Denomination
Pagan
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA
WA

What languages do you speak?

English

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Reviews of Donna Rose Gardner - Honey In The Heart Ceremonies

Jessica
Jessica Sent on 10/06/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Like our very own Fairy Godmother!

Donna officiated our very small ceremony a couple of weeks ago, and the experience was wonderful. Donna is so sweet, honest, and easy to talk to. You can tell she dearly loves her work, and absolutely had our best interests at heart! As we prepared for the ceremony, she provided us structure along with plenty of options, and gave us the space we needed to figure out our vows, while also always being available when we had questions. On the big day right before festivities began, Donna checked in with both of us separately right before - it was great to get a little pep talk amidst all the nerves, and to touch base with her in person after the emails and phone and Zoom calls (pandemic times!). The ceremony turned out beautifully thanks to Donna's earnestness and support. Several guests told us afterwards to pass along how much they enjoyed Donna's beautiful, emotional words. As we were able to review the ceremony she'd put together beforehand (minus our vows, which we were keeping secret until the big day), we could to stay in the moment during the ceremony and really take things in, and we are so happy to be able to have the ceremony binder and vow booklets as keepsakes to remember this day going forward. The whole thing was such a surreal experience, we couldn't help but think our brief yet wonderful time with Donna was like having our own caring Fairy Godmother for a little while! Thank you, Donna! We can hardly express our gratitude for all that you did to make us feel comfortable, supported, and to create such a meaningful experience for both us and our guests!
Liz
Liz Sent on 04/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A perfect wedding

We hired Honey In The Heart team for our private elopement/wedding. Donna Rose Gardner was our officiant, and Rebecca Stark was our photographer. Donna was amazing and took care of all the arrangements with Rebecca, so we didn't have to worry about coordinating, it was all handled for us. She checked out various sites until she found the perfect one that was exactly what we had wanted. She made sure we knew the process of getting a license ahead of time, organized the timing of arrival, ceremony, etc. She even dealt with rescheduling us twice due to rain, always with a smile and reassurance for us. Donna also provided many pre-written ceremonies and vows for us to choose from and let us modify them to make them our own. She even made gorgeous little vow booklets with our vows, for us to keep as mementos. Rebecca took stunning photographs, before, during, and after the ceremony. She made sure to get many different poses, candid and staged, and included the ocean view and cliffs that we had requested. We ended up with around 150 high quality photos, and she provided them in a gallery we could share with people, and also downloadable in hi-res for printing and sharing online. Donna and Rebecca helped us achieve exactly the wedding we had hoped for, and left us with keepsakes and photos to look back on forever; I highly recommend them!
Nate
Nate Sent on 11/05/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Heartfelt ceremony

We had the privilege of having Donna Rose Gardner as the officiant at our outdoor wedding which took place in the serenely beautiful backdrop of the Redwoods at the Waterfall Lodge this past October. She spent a good amount of time getting to know us, which was beautifully reflected in the words she chose for our ceremony. On the day of the wedding, Donna spoke with an elegance and clarity that resonated with our hearts, and the personal anecdotes she included made the ceremony feel incredibly intimate and special.
We couldn’t have asked for a better person to officiate our marriage, Donna made sure our love story was told in a manner as beautiful and unique as the setting we were in. We highly recommend Donna for anyone looking to have a heartfelt and personalized wedding ceremony.
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Alyssa Sent on 08/15/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Ceremony

Donna is an amazing officiant. To start, she is the most kind-hearted and genuine lady that seems to truly love being in the presence of real love. We liked her so much that we had her marry us twice; once for the paperwork and again recently for our big ceremony and reception (9 months later).
She does an amazing job with incorporating a love story and any traditions you may have into the ceremony. We chose an Oathing Stone to be added (along with our personalized love story) and Donna’s delivery and conduction was flawless.
Not only is she very comfortable with her work and speaking in front of crowds, but she also came to assist/direct us at the rehearsal the day before. We had no idea how things traditionally go, but Donna did a great job with mapping it out for us.
Months leading up to the event, Donna takes the time to ask the questions (to both bride and groom) to personalize the ceremony. She has a questionnaire for each person, so that she can see each point of view. Donna also has about SIX different ceremony options (if you don’t have verbiage of your own to use). She will also provide different ideas for the traditions (mixing of sands, oathing stone, prayer stones incorporating guests, etc). For our first ceremony, we opted to use some of her suggested vows that she had pre-prepared; however, for our bigger ceremony, we wrote our own vows.
Overall, Donna made it so easy. Whether you are more religious, spiritual, cultural, or none of the above, Donna can fit and perform your ideal wedding ceremony. She is super easy to work with, VERY responsive (quick too), and willing to assist any where she can. We highly recommend her for your special day, or days in our case!
Mallory
Mallory Sent on 03/14/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Special, Personal, and Memorable Ceremony

I don’t think anyone better could have officiated our ceremony, Donna made it better than we could have ever imagined. From the first meeting to the big day, she put so much thought and care into our ceremony that made it truly special. I loved how many options she gave us for our ceremony, we loved choosing the various parts (like the opening words and ring exchange) and we went with a Celtic handfasting ceremony since it felt like the perfect thing for myself and my husband to seal our vows.

We also really enjoyed the love story questionnaire that Donna had us both complete. Even though we didn’t show them to each other until after the wedding, it was fun to do and talk about and brought us closer together in the months leading up to the wedding.

Donna also made us little vow booklets that I will cherish forever. I am so grateful to Donna for making our wedding day something we will remember forever.
G
G S Sent on 08/12/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely perfect!

We are so very grateful that Donna was available to officiate our small backyard wedding. After describing our "style", she immediately knew what kind of ceremony we were looking for, and everything was PERFECT, from start to finish. Donna communicated very clearly throughout the process. She has a very loving, genuine and kind manner. At the same time, Donna projected her beautiful voice loud enough for our guests to hear without a microphone. HIGHLY RECOMMEND!!!
Alisha
Alisha Sent on 03/09/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Personal and engaging ceremony!

If you want a completely personal and meaningful wedding ceremony then you have found the perfect fit with Donna! Donna crafted our ceremony in a way that both told our story while keeping it engaging. We heard so many compliments after our ceremony about how great it was, with my grandfather-in-law even saying it was the best ceremony he had ever heard (and he has been to many & does not give compliments just to give compliments)! Donna provided amazing samples and guidance on how a ceremony flows while allowing us to insert details special to our relationship. She provided a questionnaire to get to know our "love story." This not only incorporated "us" so well into the ceremony, but provided a fun pre-wedding activity for us! She recommends you to fill them out individually, so after it was a fun date night to get to read each other's answers over some wine. She made the process easy & enjoyable. She took care of everything with the marriage license after the ceremony-- taking it with her and submitting it so we didn't even need to think about it after. She also gave us a copy of our ceremony in the binder she used with our personalized vow books that she printed and thoughtfully strung together with a ribbon of our wedding color. This is a wedding keepsake that we will treasure forever (& have even decided to read each anniversary). You can NOT go wrong by hiring Donna! Donna-- thank you so very much for making this experience amazing, and our ceremony completely unforgettable. You deserve all the best things.
Lakshmi
Lakshmi Sent on 12/06/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Loved working with Elope Santa Cruz!

Donna and Rebecca were an absolute pleasure to work with from start to finish. Our wedding was planned during the pandemic and I appreciated their clear communication and collaboration through the process. My husband and I felt truly well taken care of and the day itself met our expectations perfectly. We especially appreciated Donna's efforts to incorporate our Indian customs and traditions into the ceremony to make it even more special. They are a great team and we made wonderful memories together!

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Halie Sent on 12/02/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Just perfect

We decided to go with the small elopement package, it being my husband and I, Donna and Rebecca. Donna was super sweet and helped me with any questions I had. Donna provided a questionnaire that let us choose our wedding ceremony word for word. Rebecca is an awesome photographer! My husband and I are not photogenic and we usually take silly pictures but these photos turned out beautiful! Rebecca helped us feel comfortable and lead us to gorgeous areas in the redwoods. The ceremony was quick and felt authentic. We got married, took pictures and still had more then enough time to change and go have some burgers and beers. If you want a stress free genuine wedding in a gorgeous spot, do yourself a favor and book these wonderful ladies. I would 100% recommend Donna and Rebecca to anyone, (I already have)
Laura
Laura Sent on 11/11/2021
5 out of 5 rating

A Beautiful Ceremony by a Beautiful Person!

I cannot say enough wonderful things about Donna and her talents!!! Not only is she a wonderful, sweet, kind, caring person, but her way with words is exceptional. We had many wedding guests give high praise and said it was the best ceremony they've ever attended. Her communication was impeccable, and she truly cares about giving you your perfect wedding. We loved how she took the time to get to know us a little beforehand, and was always immediately responsive when we had any questions about the process. She's extremely flexible and gave us so many choices to help curate the ceremony that was perfect for us. We chose to write our own vows, and she typed them up and created beautiful booklets that matched our color scheme and are now special keepsakes. Through her, we were even able to book a great photographer, Mike Danen, who was also wonderful! I will be forever grateful to Donna for giving us a beautiful wedding and memories of the perfect day that we'll cherish forever. I very highly recommend this beautiful person to officiate your wedding! There aren't enough stars for the rating I wish I could give her!
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I have known Donna Rose Gardner from many, many years back during her start as a wedding coordinator for distinguished establishments in the Santa Cruz area. It is of no surprise she chose to be a wedding celebrant. Donna has a unique gift of connecting to her clients and being a part of their special day. Always a joy to see her.

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Donna's wedding ceremonies she creates with her couples are some of my favorite! They are a joy to experience as she engages not only the couple but the guests as well.

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We really enjoy working with Donna. She does a great job of personalizing every ceremony she does. This isn't easy but she somehow makes it happen! :)

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