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Ceremonies by Alex

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Spanish
Chinese
French
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Recommended by 100% of couples

About this vendor

Ceremonies by Alex, a wedding officiant, are based in Charlotte, North Carolina. I'm Alex Cheek, and I perform weddings all over the South. Though I'm an ordained, nondenominational Christian minister (not some phony online "ordination," which is legally unable to perform weddings in North Carolina and Virginia ), I conduct both non-religious and religious ceremonies. I've performed over a thousand weddings, so I completely understand what makes a memorable and enjoyable ceremony.

Experience

I worked in radio for many years, and my voice keeps people engaged and seldom requires a microphone. I custom-craft each ceremony to fit the exact needs of every client. I've also spent time performing on stage, so I know how to deliver my "lines" with style and grace while keeping everyone's focus on the real stars of the show—the couple getting married. I regularly perform weddings in Spanish and have performed portions of ceremonies in nine other languages.

Services Offered

Marrying people is my full-time job, not just a side gig, and I have a mission to help people find even more joy in what should be the happiest day of their lives. I'm committed to reducing stress, solving problems, and finding answers for my clients. Each wedding receives a custom estimate, meaning that prices are flexible to suit the couple. My very best wishes to you, and I look forward to serving you!

What You'll Love About Ceremonies by Alex

Couples have praised him for his bilingual capabilities, punctuality, and helpfulness. They also appreciated his ability to customize ceremonies and communicate effectively. Check out the review section for more information.

Features

Veteran-owned

Just me

Experience

  • 12 years in business

  • We speak French, German, Italian, Portuguese, Russian and Spanish

Weddings with this vendor

Celeste & Timothy's wedding
Celeste & Timothy
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FAQ

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$225

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$50

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling
Bilingual

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
VA
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

Chinese
English
French
German
Hebrew
Italian
Portuguese
Russian
Spanish

Still have questions?

Reach out about anything you didn't see answered here—no question is too small!

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Reviews of Ceremonies by Alex

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Alex is a highly recommended officiant who is professional, punctual, and communicative. He personalizes ceremonies, offers many options (including bilingual elements), and handles last‑minute changes with flexibility. Guests praised his warm delivery, humor, and ability to make ceremonies meaningful and memorable.

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Alex is a highly recommended officiant who is professional, punctual, and communicative. He personalizes ceremonies, offers many options (including bilingual elements), and handles last‑minute changes with flexibility. Guests praised his warm delivery, humor, and ability to make ceremonies meaningful and memorable.

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Kristalynn Sent on 01/03/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent Officiant

Alex was wonderful to work with. We went over what we were looking for, as I wanted a more traditional ceremony with prayers etc. and my husband wanted a more modern and less traditional ceremony. In addition, we both decided we didn't want to write our own vows (adding more stress to us). We wanted to go with something that was already scripted. Alex provided the perfect balance. He sent us several options to review and were able to edit to fit us. His delivery was excellent on the day of our wedding. He provided humor, sincerity and a very touching speech. We highly recommend him!
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Gabrielle Sent on 05/18/2026
5 out of 5 rating

We chose a great officiant.

Alex was very professional and easy to work with. He sent us a questionnaire so that he could get to know us better and put together a delightful ceremony . Alex was one of the easiest people we had to work with while we were putting things together for our wedding.
Thank you Alex for putting together a ceremony that included everything we asked for.
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Lauren Sent on 05/09/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Saved our wedding!

3 weeks before our wedding, our initial officiant had a very unexpected death in his family and was unable to officiate for us. We reached out to so many officiants for help and were met with many no’s, until alex who answered us very quickly with multiple options to solve our problem and get us married. He was very encouraging and helpful from the beginning, and brought an immense knowledge of the wedding process to the table. He helped us make a beautiful ceremony, and even brought everything to the deeds office for us while we were on our honeymoon. His kindness was something i will remember forever and I will be forever grateful for his professionalism and ability to help! I would recommend him a million times over!
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Kaylan Sent on 05/04/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Thank you!

Alex was great from the beginning to end. We needed an officiant last minute and Alex thankfully was available. He was very communicative about the process and with the ceremony itself. Would highly recommend him if you need an officiant!
Richard
Richard Sent on 04/23/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent Officiant!

As the father of the bride, I can say our experience with Alex was exceptional. Planning a wedding from out of town can be stressful, but he brought a level of professionalism and organization to every interaction. He was consistently punctual, communicative, and had a warm presence that put everyone at ease. The ceremony itself was beautifully balanced—filled with grace, lighthearted humor, and a meaningful sense of spirituality that resonated with both the couple and their guests. What stood out most was his thoughtful personalization; he took the time to understand the couple’s story and wove it seamlessly into the ceremony, even incorporating unique elements like a wine and tea ceremony. We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant and highly recommend his services to any couple seeking a truly special and memorable experience.
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Lucas Sent on 02/21/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn't ask for better!

Alex made our wedding a dream. Truly offered us an amazing experience from start to finish. We had many custom requests for how we wanted our ceremony laid out and personalized and Alex was able to perfectly combine those. Alex was professional and patient in working with us through many drafts of our ceremony until we came to one that we were happy with. On the day of Alex provided and amazing experience and an even more amazing ceremony. Everything went perfect to plan and Alex's delivery and execution of the ceremony was unmatched. If you are looking for your sign to book with Alex this is it, do it! Thanks again for every Alex; Live Long and Prosper 🖖
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Jeremiah Sent on 12/30/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderfully Great

Everything was exactly how we wanted it. Couldnt have askedbfor a better person to officiate our wedding.
Khalyve
Khalyve Sent on 12/24/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A Ceremony That Exceeded All Our Dreams

Everything was simply perfect. Every detail was thoughtfully taken care of, and the ceremony was exactly as we imagined: intimate, meaningful, and full of love. It felt just like a Hallmark movie, with magical moments that seemed straight out of a dream. It was a moment we will always treasure and one that marked a before and after in our lives.
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Priscilla Sent on 12/19/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Above and Beyond on Our Special Day

We had an absolutely wonderful experience with Alex as our wedding officiant. He was incredibly punctual and responsible, always making sure everything ran smoothly. He even conducted our ceremony in Spanish just as we wanted, and he was super flexible when we had to change the timing at the last minute. The ceremony felt so personalized and special.

Even though the weather was freezing, he handled it with such grace and was always kind and attentive until the very last moment. We truly appreciated his warmth and how he went the extra mile. Highly recommend him to anyone!
Amanda
Amanda Sent on 12/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

20 out of 10 stars!

I got married 12.13.2025 at Chateau Des Fleures. Mr. Alex Cheek was truly the best officiant we could have asked for—hands down the crowd favorite! He had everyone laughing, engaged, and fully present throughout the ceremony. He made a beautiful effort to include my family, which meant so much to us and made the moment even more special. When my groom forgot the rings, Mr. Cheek handled it seamlessly, pivoting with grace and humor without missing a beat. On top of all that, he showed incredible kindness and professionalism by waiting for payment when our envelope was accidentally misplaced. His patience, warmth, and flexibility went above and beyond. If you are looking for an officiant who is genuine, adaptable, and unforgettable, Mr. Alex Cheek is it—20 out of 10 stars!
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