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Erin
Devoted October 2010

RSVP envelopes

Erin, on June 15, 2010 at 7:22 PM Posted in Planning 0 22

So all the RSVP envelopes are to be mailed back to us for the wedding, what names do you put on the envelope?

We were planning on putting:

The Future Mr & Mrs Anderson

Address

City, State zip

This seem ok?

Also, do you have to put the person's name as the return address?

22 Comments

Latest activity by nnguyentobe, on May 31, 2013 at 11:43 PM
  • digiscrappy
    Super July 2010
    digiscrappy ·
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    Generally, response cards are addressed to whomever is handling the guest list. Even though I live with my FH, ours were addressed to me.

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  • Kelly Bussanich
    Kelly Bussanich ·
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    That all depends if you live together. What is you return address on the outer envelope of your invitation?

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  • Erin
    Devoted October 2010
    Erin ·
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    Outer envelope also says The Future Mr and Mrs Anderson (yes, we live together)

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  • ladylee
    Master June 2010
    ladylee ·
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    Our outter envelopes just had the return address printed on the back flap. The RSVP envelopes were addressed to me. We didn't live together before the wedding and I didn't want to give that impression by putting both of our names on the env so since I was handling the invitations...I used my first initial last name and then the address.

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  • Chardeen
    Devoted July 2010
    Chardeen ·
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    Mine didn't have a name no space for that. I just had our addreess on it

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  • ladylee
    Master June 2010
    ladylee ·
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    Oh and no you don't need to put the person's name/address on the return address. Although I did have a few people who wrote theirs in or attached a label.

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  • Kathy
    Master July 2010
    Kathy ·
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    My daughters RSVPs are coming to me (I am the contact with the hotel where the wedding and reception will be) and the address on the back of the envelope is her Dad's home, in case people want to send gifts.

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  • mandyblank2
    Super May 2010
    mandyblank2 ·
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    I just put:

    Husband's last name

    address

    city, state zip

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  • Brooklynne
    VIP July 2010
    Brooklynne ·
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    I put both of our names on ours. We own a home together, so I never even thought of doing it any other way.

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  • He-Gives-Me-Butterflyz
    VIP September 2010
    He-Gives-Me-Butterflyz ·
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    I'm using my name since I'm the manager of our team. Lol.

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  • Kathleen Zagula
    Kathleen Zagula ·
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    For my wedding I used the same wording you chose. The Future Mr. & Mrs. Zagula, I actually heard back from people on how cute they thought that was.

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  • Mrs. Brown!!!!
    Expert July 2010
    Mrs. Brown!!!! ·
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    I just used my name and address.

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  • *Future *R*S*K*
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    *Future *R*S*K* ·
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    Im using The Future Mr. & Mrs. Keith. We already live together and it's both of our wedding so that is why I am doing that

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  • Michele
    VIP July 2010
    Michele ·
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    The RSVP envelopes are addressed to me, even though we do live together. I'm more organized than he is and am in charge of the guest list. The return address on the invitation envelope is simply our address, no name. I do not plan on putting a return address on the RSVP envelopes.

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  • kelseyj
    VIP August 2010
    kelseyj ·
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    I'm with digi - who ever is handling the guest list should have their name on there... also I think who ever is hosting the wedding should have their name on there... My parents are paying for the wedding, therefore hosting it. so the RSVP have my parents names, and their address... It also says on the invitations "Mr. and Mrs. Smith request the pleasure of your company..." So it would be weird to send the RSVP's to me... and no you don't have to put the guest return address on the envelope... that would take forever!

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  • Denise livin on 5
    VIP June 2010
    Denise livin on 5 ·
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    I put both of our last names and then our address.

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  • 91810bride
    Devoted September 2010
    91810bride ·
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    I put just my name!! We love together but i am the organized one!! LOL

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  • M
    Savvy August 2010
    Meredith ·
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    Our RSVP envelopes have my name on it and our new address. I will be keeping track of the list. My mom said people would need our address in case they needed an address to send gifts (my parents live in another state).

    My parents' street, city and state are on the back flap (return address) of the outer label - no name.

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  • FMW ~ BatLlama
    Master May 2011
    FMW ~ BatLlama ·
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    I'm wondering the same thing. Parent's are paying for it, but FH & I live with my parents. So either way, it's the same address, I just don't know what name to put. My invitations will say Mr & Mrs (my parents) request the honor blah blah blah, so I'm thinking maybe to them. Idk yet!

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  • binx
    Master August 2010
    binx ·
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    My parents are paying but I'm keeping track of the guest list so they're being mailed to me thus

    Ms. Mariel ____

    address

    city, state zip

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