We got married June 7, and I am almost 30 so we started TTC at the beginning of August. I have a doctor appointment tomorrow with a normal physician (not my gyno, i couldnt get in to see her until october) to make sure whether or not im pregnant.
Last night i was talking with my mom and brought up the subject of our future children, trying to feel her out to see how she would take the news, if i am prego.
She said, "I really hope you two wait a while, you arent ready for a kid. Im not ready for you to have a kid. You are too young and you both need to mature more before you have kids."
Honestly, that statement makes me not want to tell her when it happens. It hurts all the more because of the fact that our neighbor's daughter just had a baby, she's unmarried and only 19, this is her second kid, and my mom is thrilled for her. It makes me so sad to think she wouldnt be happy if i got pregnant right now.
Even if im not pregnant now, i could be soon, so Im not sure what to do...