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Make your wedding as special and as unique as you are. Your special day needs to reflect your personality and all that makes you and the way are. I have had the honor to join couples from many different faith traditions, cultures and backgrounds. These differences can be united to create a ceremony that is both unique and memorable. I specialize in creating a wedding ceremony that carries the personality of the couple getting married. Lets build a lifelong memory that reflects who you are as a couple. From traditional to creative, formal or fun and any combination in between… your wedding ceremony should posses the elements that you desire. Remember it is your day. Let's make it special. I will work with you to build your ceremony to fulfill your dreams. I also can perform Renewal of Vows, Commitment ceremonies, Memorials, and blessings…

I am a licensed ordained minister. I specialize in custom wedding ceremony design. I have experience in multi-faith, unique concept, religious and non-religious ceremonies. Over the past 10 years, I have performed numerous ceremonies each with its own unique flare.

Phone: 918.691.4713

Email: reverendjayhowell@gmail.com

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

LA
MA
OK

Reviews of Custom weddings by Reverend Jay Howell

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Laura Sent on 09/15/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Made my day special!

Rev. Jay did SUCH a great job making sure our ceremony went beautifully!! He really takes the time to get to know the couple and their style, and he helped us connect and live in the moment during our vows. He really put both me and my (now!) husband at ease and made the whole process so easy. Definitely book Rev. Jay!
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Denise Sent on 11/06/2017
5 out of 5 rating
My husband and I didn't have a specific idea of what we wanted for our ceremony. We needed a little guidance and Jay was so helpful! He made it so easy for us to customize our vows and readings and was very confident everything was going to be perfect and it was! He took so much pressure off that part of the planning. During our ceremony you can hear my husband say "he's crushing it" and several people have contacted me after our wedding to ask where we found him! He was worth every penny!
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Moriah Sent on 11/03/2017
5 out of 5 rating
I am so glad we chose Jay Howell. He is so fun and is very good at what he does. He does a very good job at making your day stress free and really takes the time to get to know both the bride and groom.
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Lindsay Sent on 11/01/2017
5 out of 5 rating
All I can really say is this: Jay charmed the snot out of my grandmother, who is famously not easy to please. I've had so many compliments on how heartfelt and romantic our wedding ceremony was. Jay asked a million questions to make sure our ceremony was exactly what we wanted it to be. He had us write our own vows and made the whole process all about us and the commitment we were making. It was wonderful. If a friend talks to me about getting married (or I even overhear a complete stranger talking about it) I will be shoving Jay's card in their faces immediately. He is a true professional, and helped make our wedding day amazing.
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Kendra Sent on 10/18/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Reverend Howell worked with us in a private session prior to even writing our vows or picking any readings. He gave us great material to look over and truly great advice on writing our vows. Reverend Howell gave us the most memorable and elegantly spoken wedding ceremony. He makes you laugh, cry, and truly BE in the moment we hopefully only get once in a lifetime. Thank you Reverend Howell for your hard work and devotion to making our moment magical and unforgettable!
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Karen Sent on 09/19/2017
5 out of 5 rating
So personalized! You can have exactly what you have always wanted and so much more. Jay was so thoughtful. He helped us in every possible way. First he put my fears to rest with his process, and then he even helped me deal with the other vendors I was still contemplating. On my wedding day, he was light and humorous, and was an amazing calming factor to a hectic day. He made me feel special. I would recommend him without hesitation.
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Allen Sent on 09/19/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Jay married my friends all the way up in Arkansas and did a terrific job. Clean humor with a great dose of professionalism, I'd highly recommend him.
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Lauren Sent on 08/28/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Omg. Jay was the best. He made my husband and me feel so comfortable and at ease on our special yet stressful day. He's full of great ideas, a true pro. Loved him!!
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Kennedy Sent on 01/23/2017
5 out of 5 rating
Reverend Jay Howell was wonderful to work with. Very flexible and easy to get a hold of. He made the day flow so well. He made everything go smoothly and put me at ease.
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David Sent on 12/23/2016
5 out of 5 rating
Jay is flexible, positive, and easy going. He was patient with us and gave us great encouragement and confidence in our choices. Our experience was smooth and stress free because of his support and guidance.
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2015 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2014 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2013 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

2 Endorsements
Empire Events Empire Events Wedding DJs

I have seen MANY wedding ceremonies as a professional emcee/DJ and helping provide sound for ceremonies. I can tell you there are some good and than there is JAY..he always does a great job, it isn't the average ceremony that guests have sat thru over and over....it is about YOU!

Erica Weddings Erica Weddings Wedding Planners

Jay is such a pleasure to work with. He makes the process of designing the wedding ceremony fun for my brides & grooms...a task that many become overwhelmed with! He's got a relaxed - no stress, ready to take on whatever is thrown his away, yet professional approach to what he does. Any time my couples get to share smiles and laughter during the ceremony; that's a sign of a great officiant who created a ceremony around the couple and their personalities! Jay IS the right person to officiate your wedding. Call him today!!

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