We invited around 200-210 people total (including couples), and we are sitting at a final count of about 150. Were only anticipating 100 but some people surprised us in a good way so we are gonna have a flippin' PARTY! Can't wait! 9 days!
There are definitely pros and cons to both! I think weighing your options, seeing what makes the most sense, and also looking at your budget will help you determine what's best!
We have 137 on the guest list, but that's with everyone bringing a guest. I think we'll end up at about 125. My sister got married in 2006 and had almost 300 people. I couldn't even imagine! Invites go out next week.