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DitchingDiaz
Dedicated November 2020

Yes or No to Spanx/shape-wear when dress shopping!?

DitchingDiaz, on October 17, 2019 at 9:59 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 10
Hi everyone!
I’m going to my first dress shopping appointment this Saturday and I’m actually a little nervous! I’m a curvy Mid-size girl, definitely not a size 2 or 4, and I tend to pick at myself a lot. While I’m currently trying to stop and be kinder to myself, I’ve always liked wearing spanks under dresses just so everything is smooth, but I’m scared it might look weird if I try something on with an an open back etc. what do you guys think/recommend?

thank you!! 💕

10 Comments

Latest activity by DitchingDiaz, on October 21, 2019 at 2:46 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I wore Spanx to my appointment and had no problems. I would have taken them off if they didn’t suit the dress.
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  • K
    Dedicated October 2019
    Katherine ·
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    Just bring them or wear them. Ditch them if needed.

    side note: if you pick at your body, I’d suggest not picking a backless or sheer dress.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    If they make you comfortable I would say to bring them and if you have to take them off to try a dress on you have that option.
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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2020
    Taylor ·
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    I'd bring them. I tried on lots of crepe dresses and you can see every single line on your body (including your belly button). I'm pretty slim but I felt terrible in them and it definitely alters the entire vibe of the appointment. Wear the Spanx. Most dresses you try on will be an immediate yes or no. If it's a no, don't worry about whether they're showing. If you love the dress and they're popping out the back, just slip them off.

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  • H
    Dedicated March 2020
    Holly ·
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    I would bring them with you. I already had the idea that I would be wearing spanks with my dress before I even went dress shopping. The dresses I was looking were very simple, and I didn't want to have my fat rolls showing lol. The dress I picked out actually has a built in corset in it, so I am actually not having to wear spanks. I would definitely bring them with you if they make you feel more comfortable. Who knows, the dress you pick out might have a corset in it like mine did and you decide you don't need them!

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  • C
    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    I didn’t wear them, I don’t even think I brought them (it’s been a while I don’t remember) I do know most of the dresses were too big anyway and needed to be clipped. I only tried on 1 that was tight/too small.
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  • Amber
    Devoted April 2022
    Amber ·
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    I wore Spanx and a strapless bra every time I went dress shopping. It helped me to feel/look my best while dress shopping because I’m also a curvy girl.
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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
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    Definitely bring them at the very least. I brought a strapless bra dress shopping with me and ditched it after a couple dresses because it didn't work with backless styles. If you think you may want to wear shapewear on your wedding day then you definitely want to know how they look with the dresses you are considering. That way you aren't trying on a dress you love at the store and wondering if your Spanx will show or not. You may find yourself looking at styles that are heavily structured with think, supportive fabric and that Spanx aren't necessary, it just depends. If you bring them you don't have to use them, but at least they are there if you need them.

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  • Dierdra
    Super August 2021
    Dierdra ·
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    I wore a spanx bodysuit with a low cut front. I loved the experience. I was confident trying on dresses and the body color ones you cant see under the dresses. I could focus on the style of dress I liked and not on my extra love areas lol
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  • DitchingDiaz
    Dedicated November 2020
    DitchingDiaz ·
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    Thanks everyone!! I wore spanx shorts and a strapless bra and actually ended up loving my body in a backless dress! Thanks for the help 💕
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