Wrong app?

So i really like this app mainly bc i get to see different opinions on all kinds of topics but i notice everything is to plan a huge big wedding... unfortunately I'm not getting a big wedding "yet"... 😑
I see everybody with their e-ring, venues, dress, decorations etc etc... and i love to read all the post but I can't relate to anyone lol..
My SO n I come from previous relationships and have kids from those relationships (3 total) and together we have a 4 month baby...☺ we been living together almost 3 years and we are getting married by court only😶.. only me n him n 5 relatives(his)n dinner afterwards... even tho is something very simple am very excited about buying a dress and wedding bands...only thing is i would've wish to have an e-ring... i even want to buy it my self but i think is cliche to propose to my self lol.... i do wish for a church ceremony but we waiting on that one for a lil bit.. i want it to be in mexico.. (my parents live their) n save a liitle money as well 😬😄 everyone believes that you need to be financially stable to get married and i believe is true but i also think that if you see a future with that one special person $100 dollars is all u need for a perfect day.. right???? 🤔