I am slightly concerned about the groomsmen. My fiance is not a big communicator or organizer. I don't need a lot from the groomsmen to come and put a suit on. However, one expressed not being able to travel (**NOT because of COVID**) to us. We have alternative means of transport to ensure he can get here, so that is one less thing for him to worry about. I also have had my fiance sent out a few texts to the groomsmen and it is like pulling teeth to get a response text. I don't need them to go out and get their suit tomorrow. I just need them to acknowledge "yeah I got this message I am still in the wedding party" or "I don't know if I can be in the wedding anymore". Either response is fine, I would just like something back. I have heard terrible stories about people backing out three days before the wedding.