I just want to start this by say personally I don't care what people do in their own time if they're moderate about it and it doesn't interfere with them working, going to school, being a contributing member of society. My FH and I decided that other than alcohol we would lead a substance free lifestyle because that is what makes us both comfortable.
However we do have friends (even our parents have friends) who use cocaine at parties. Again I don't care if they do this on their own time but not only do I not feel uncomfortable having this at my wedding- I feel that my venue as great as they are would not tolerate that ONE bit and would kick us all out. Not to mention my mother's side of the family is pretty religious and I am sure most of them have never even been around that sort of environment.
I want to ask specific people to please not bring sustenance to my wedding- but I don't want to offend or start any sort of conflict. I have no reason to believe anyone struggles with any sort of addiction I just don't want it there at my wedding. We've paid for top shelf liquor and I feel that's fine enough. What would be the best way to ask/tell people about this?
Thank you!