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Bliek Wedding
Just Said Yes September 2025

Work place friends

Bliek Wedding, on September 10, 2022 at 10:29 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5

Hey everyone! Got a question about inviting only a certain few people in my work place. Due to costs, I was only going to invite my boss and his wife, as well as have one of my coworker friends as my bridesmaid with her husband. I can't afford to invite everyone as I already have a huge family that I will need to invite and inviting the whole team would be around an extra 44 people...

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Latest activity by Mrs.evans, on September 11, 2022 at 12:25 AM
  • Ashlee
    Super September 2022
    Ashlee ·
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    I assume the question is if this is okay? Not sure since there isn't actually a question posed here, but I'd say yes. You're not required to invite a whole office, people may have their feelings hurt about it, but you are not responsible for other people's emotions.

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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
    Imani ·
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    I invited my team and other close coworkers. The people who were not invited were not offended. They also threw me a surprise bridal shower & invited our entire office. It actually worked out.
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  • Orianna
    Devoted December 2022
    Orianna ·
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    Invite who you'd like there. Its considered polite to invite your boss (which you are planning!) but other than that - it doesn't have to be everyone. I'm inviting my team (cause its only 4 people, 7 including partners/spouses) and a very good friend. We have a new team member starting this week, but my invites are already printed and being sent out this week. I've never met this person, so I don't feel bad that he's not being invited.

    At the end of the day, it's your wedding. Invite who you want to spend that day with!

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  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    Invite whomever you want from the office, but keep wedding talk to a minimum, and mail the invitations to their homes.

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  • Mrs.evans
    VIP October 2022
    Mrs.evans ·
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    Hi I have the same issues but I told them that we are tight already. And so I only invited a handful and also told them about these plus one. I said no more PERIOD
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