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Alexis
Beginner June 2018

Wording of wedding celebration announcement/invite?

Alexis, on February 20, 2018 at 7:56 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

My fiance and I are eloping in Iceland in June 2018. In order to somewhat please the families, we'll have a low-key celebration a month afterwards, on a Friday, in a distillery with a cocktail-party vibe not a wedding reception. We'd love to still invite our out-of-town family members, so we'll need to let them know sooner rather than later about the celebration. How do I word that in an invite/announcement? Most of the invites I've seen seem to be sent after the elopement.

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Latest activity by Kay, on April 19, 2018 at 6:03 PM
  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    Perhaps word it as "a celebration of our marriage"? Guests don't need to be told in the invitation the date you were married. They just need to know the date, time and place of the celebration.

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  • Alexis
    Beginner June 2018
    Alexis ·
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    I feel that will create a lot of questions and we should let them know we're eloping so they're not more confused?

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  • Forestwed
    Master May 2018
    Forestwed ·
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    X and X will be marrying in a private ceremony but please join them for a celebration of their marriage on _____ date
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  • M
    Super October 2018
    MaltedMilk ·
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    First off I am totally jealous of getting married in Iceland. It has been my dream to go there - and I will someday!!

    Jane and John Doe

    joyfully invite you to the

    celebration of their marriage

    Friday September 14, 2108

    Location, Time

    You could enclose a card with a note explaining you got married in Iceland in June

    OR;

    You could do a photo card of the two of you outside the courthouse (or cliff or wherever you are getting married) with the above words over the photo.

    You could say something like "Join us for cocktails on Friday September 14th, 7pm

    at Surley's Brewery, City and State

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  • Alexis
    Beginner June 2018
    Alexis ·
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    Thanks! I like the idea of adding a photo of where we're planning to elope since we need to send out some sort of invite months before we actually elope.

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    November 2018
    happeningmom ·
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    You could just send out an invite that states You are invited to a celebration of Marriage and then add all fo the specifics

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    Super October 2018
    MaltedMilk ·
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    Please post pics of Iceland!!! I would totally try to include a picture of the two of you with a miniature horse or in a hot spring or something. (Can you tell I love Iceland? LOL!)

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  • K
    Beginner September 2018
    Kay ·
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    We did this. We originally planned to wed in September but due to circumstances we married privately in March. We are still using our original date for a reception because deposits have already been placed.


    Our invites will still be sent out on time (but seeing as yours is a month away, I would send them literally tomorrow) and they will read something along the lines of:


    Jane and John exchanged vows in a private ceremony in Los Angeles, CA

    On XX March XXXX at X O'clock in the afternoon.

    We ask that you join us for a celebration of their union on X day at X o'clock at

    123 Sesame Street

    Blah Blah, CA 12345


    I would love to follow updates as to how this turned out for you, things you would have changed/done differently once you have the reception so that I can apply it to my own.


    Edit: I read your original post wrong. I would still say as a celebration of your union or something to that effect and I would include a picture of you guys from the day of your wedding on the invitation with maybe even a " We Eloped" across the front.

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