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nicki
Savvy October 2016

Wording for P.H. D.'s in wedding party

nicki, on February 25, 2016 at 9:26 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 13

One of my best friends has a P.H. D. in Psychology. I was there for all of her hard work in the doctoral program, and I am extremely proud of all of her accomplishments and the work she is doing now. Is it correct to list her as Dr. xyz in the wedding program and website? I feel like it is, but I am not sure I have ever seen it done like that. Does anyone know the proper etiquette for this? It should be pretty straight forward.

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Latest activity by tjacob2014, on February 25, 2016 at 11:39 AM
  • NowASeptMrs
    Master September 2015
    NowASeptMrs ·
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    It seems pretty formal. That mean's you would have to address everyone else as Mr or Mrs... I just listed everyone's first name:

    MOH: Samantha

    BM: Ali, Susan, Rachel

    ETA: I agree with addressing her invitation formally as you would everyone else, but for Program I've just seen first or first and last names.

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  • tjacob2014
    VIP April 2017
    tjacob2014 ·
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    Definitely address her invitation to Dr. Xyz, but unless you are listing everyone else as Mr, Ms and Mrs then I would leave it out of the program.

    ETA: if all goes well I will have successfully defended my thesis before the wedding. I'm not even sure if I want to be introduced as "Dr and Mr Last Name" or Mr and Mrs yet. I wouldn't expect to see my title in a friend's program, but I would expect to be addressed as Dr for the invite if the person knows I'm a Dr.

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  • Mrs. RATR
    Master September 2016
    Mrs. RATR ·
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    I have never seen titles in a wedding program.

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  • ACS
    Dedicated October 2015
    ACS ·
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    I agree with NowASeptMrs. That does seem very formal. I think first names would do for the program.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I've never seen that either, and I see a LOT of programs....

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  • nicki
    Savvy October 2016
    nicki ·
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    Thank you guys so much for the advice. I definitely did address the STD as Dr. and plan the same for the invite. Currently on the website I did list everyone with titles just in case, but it seemed, like you guys say, a little too formal. I wanted to get some opinions before making any changes. This really helped. First time asking a question on the forum and I am glad I did! Thanks again!

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  • A&L
    Master April 2017
    A&L ·
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    I have seen it on invites but not on a program

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  • Jen D.
    VIP May 2017
    Jen D. ·
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    I hadn't thought of this until you posted but now you've got me thinking! Three of my girls will be Dr. By the wedding, 2 already are. I think my plan is going to be to recognize the degrees in a little blurb about each of them on the website. That way I can get it in there without using the titles. You are totally welcome to steal my idea!

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  • Kels
    Master August 2016
    Kels ·
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    I have a lot of friends with PHDs and I'm proud of them. But I don't think you need to list the title everywhere. People tend to use them on business documents and such but that's it.

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  • Possum
    Master December 2015
    Possum ·
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    I would also suggest to ask your friend how she would like to be addressed.

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  • Staci
    Master September 2014
    Staci ·
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    You can put it on escort cards/place settings.

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  • Cassandra7
    Super August 2006
    Cassandra7 ·
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    A PhD is not a social title.

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  • tjacob2014
    VIP April 2017
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    @Cassandra7 I'm not sure what you mean by that, but in formal correspondence you would address someone with a PhD as "Dr. Jane Smith" the same as you would address a woman without a doctorate or MD as "Ms. Jane Smith". So it is social in the respect that it changes the title used, but normally only for formal correspondence, not programs and such.

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