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CN&AK
Devoted March 2015

Wording for ceremony only invites?

CN&AK, on November 21, 2014 at 6:12 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

We are having 120 people reception with only 50 people ceremony.

So obviously the main page will be for reception and insert will be for ceremony... any good wording for this?

Thanks ladies,

6 Comments

Latest activity by AndixLyn, on November 21, 2014 at 7:18 PM
  • Emily
    Master May 2014
    Emily ·
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    Basically all wedding invitations are written for the ceremony specifically, with "reception to follow" at the bottom or a separate reception card as an insert. So you can follow any invitation sample wording.

    Also, why is almost half of your guest list excluded from the ceremony? Unless you are having a very intimate ceremony with immediate family only, it is pretty rude to exclude *some* people.

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  • CN&AK
    Devoted March 2015
    CN&AK ·
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    No space! Smiley sad

    We are getting married on top of geothermal crater. So, really have no option Smiley sad

    That 50 includes family and for friends, we filter as people we talk to at least once a month.

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  • Z
    Master May 2012
    Zoe ·
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    I'm with Emily. Although I think it is ruder to invite people to the ceremony and exclude them from the reception, excluding them from one or the other creates 'less than's. I strongly urge you to just have your reception with the 50 who were important enough to rate the ceremony or pick another ceremony site.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    You win CN. That is about the coolest, coolest thing ever.

    For the party;

    'Please join us to celebrate our marriage on ......." I don't think you have to go into detail about what you did for the ceremony. If asked, just say, 'we chose to do an intimate private ceremony", but honestly, that ceremony should be just family and very close friends. It's kind of hard to have a group of 50 and still call it "private'.

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  • LB
    Master May 2014
    LB ·
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    I think if you explain to people that you're getting married on top of a geothermal crater...they might be a bit more understanding.

    Celia's wording is perfect but I'd get the word out about "why" informally.

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  • AndixLyn
    Master June 2015
    AndixLyn ·
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    I'd say just the same as any other invite, just don't put, Reception to Follow.

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