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AngTrom
Dedicated May 2019

Wordage for rescheduled reception

AngTrom, on February 9, 2019 at 5:56 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 12

Hello! My now husband and I were scheduled to be married 9/22/18 but Hurricane Florence had other plans. We went ahead and got married with our pastor and about 1/3 of our wedding guests who were all local and had made it back from evacuating but had to reschedule the big event and all of the vendors. To envision it, we wore the clothes we were planning to wear to our rehearsal, the few wedding party members in attendance wore regular clothes and we got married outside our church instead of at our venue. Our new date is a Friday, 5/3/18. We are torn on if we should have a vow renewal or just the reception because of the following details:

1. My dad is no longer healthy enough to travel so I'd be walking down the aisle without him. Smiley sad

2. We are planning to start it at 6pm versus the originally planned 5pm since it's a Friday and that would likely be so much easier for our local guests (about 75% of the guest list).

3. Rehiring our pastor (or another individual) and floral bouquets. The florist was the only one to reimburse us and at this point I'm tireddddd of planning and want to minimize how much money we are putting back in to this.


I would LOVE some input on the following:

Vow renewal or just begin it all with the reception: cocktail hour/dinner/dancing?

Wordage on the invitation: Example: "Celebration of", "Wedding", "Reception", etc

Invitations: Reorder the same ones with new info, get similar ones, or go totally different?

12 Comments

Latest activity by Porterpoppin, on February 11, 2019 at 12:02 PM
  • Disneybride
    Dedicated April 2021
    Disneybride ·
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    I say do the reception only
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I think if I was in your situation I would say the honor of your presence is requested at our rescheduled reception and considering your dad’s health go with reception only. That’s definitely personal to me though because I wouldn’t want to walk Leo without my dad after he told me that he wanted to walk me... I originally assumed he wouldn’t care and planned to walk by myself but when I casually asked what he would like: to just relax and enjoy the day and not have anything to do or if he actually wanted to be part of the wedding party he said that he would rather walk me down and do the first dancd thing and so we’re going to do them both... as your dad seems to be sentimentally close to you also I would just go with the reception.
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    As far as invitations: I would probably be with you and be over it so I would just pick the cheapest thing that I felt like I get away with LOL
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    Or the honor of your presence is requested
    at the rescheduled reception to celebrate the marriage of
    You
    to
    him
    from date of marriage

    Or even something like

    Your presence is formally requested
    For a re-scheduled reception
    In honor of the marriage of
    (Or to honor the marriage of)
    You to him
    That took place on date

    plese join us on
    date of event
    at location
    At time
    For a formal reception
    (Or for drinks dinner and dancing)
    in celebration of the union that has occurred

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    I would just do a reception and call it a "celebration of marriage."

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  • E
    Super October 2017
    Emily ·
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    I would do a reception too. Your guests understand your situation and I think they would like the opportunity to party with you.

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  • Jeanie
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    I think a reception would be appropriate. You could word it as a celebration of your marriage. I would assume that all your guests know of the details of what happened last year, and many probably know of your fathers health as well. Maybe if you have a video of your ceremony you could play that at the reception? You could always recite your vows to each other without the pomp and circumstance. If you didn't write your own at the time, you could always both write down a couple words and say them in front of people, not as a formal wedding ceremony but just to allow everyone to share in your love.

    Honestly, you should have fun with this. Forget all the formal wedding stuff and have fun with it!! You have the opportunity to do whatever you want without the wedding price tag. You don't need to tell anyone you hire that it is a wedding, because it technically isn't, and can then save yourself money!

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  • Danielle K
    VIP June 2019
    Danielle K ·
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    This is 100% personal choice, but if it were me, I would consider having a vowel renewal. You can have anyone officiate (friend or family member that you don't have to pay) because it isn't a legal ceremony. Your husband and you can walk down the isle together because you are already married (I personally think this would be really sweet)

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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
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    I'd say omit the vowel renewal / second ceremony to make it easier on yourselves. Use whatever style invites you want to use...I don't think this will really matter to your guests. I would word the invitation something like: Mr. and Mrs. John doe invite you to the celebration of their marriage. Due to hurricane Florence, their original wedding plans had to be changed. The happy couple were able to get married, but had to cancel their reception. Now, with great excitement they would like to celebrate with all of their friends and family, and invite you to their wedding reception on so and so date at so and so time at so and so place." There isn't anything wrong with including a little more information on the invite to give a clear understanding of what your guests are being invited to.

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  • J
    Savvy August 2019
    Joelle ·
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    That’s a good idea!
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
    Sherry ·
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    I'd just do a reception and here are some examples of invitations and wording. The style however is up to you. If you love your original ones, go with those. If you want something different, get different ones.

    Invite exampleWordage for rescheduled reception 1Invite exampleWordage for rescheduled reception 2Invite exampleWordage for rescheduled reception 3


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  • Porterpoppin
    VIP March 2019
    Porterpoppin ·
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    Oh man I'm sorry that happened! I'm glad you guys still got married though! It'd be hard for me to carry on planning when it was so close to being done lol. Like you said I'd do it the cheapest/easiest way possible and do a celebration of marriage, reception only. Might be the easiest, least stressful way to go about it!

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