So my wedding is 17 months out and I'm trying to make sure I don't go bridezilla by making sure I don't procrastinate or forget the little details and being slightly flexible.
So today my future MIL asks if she can have a SILVER dress made to wear to my wedding with a navy blue jacket? Now my wedding colors are Navy Blue, silverdust and white with turquoise and dark steel gray accents but are you serious?!?
I legit told her "I love you but if you wear a silver dress to our wedding, I'm spilling red wine on you LOL" she laughed a did a which is fine but I'm being dead ass serious! I said in pictures the lights will be bright and it will was out the color making it look white. I said I have already picked out several dresses I like for you and my mom in navy blue or black so I'm certain there is something you'll like in there.Then my brother, who is one of the groomsmen, said he doesn't wear a suit jacket. He'll wear a vest and tie but not a suit jacket... I said the ceremony will be short and you just wear it during that then you can take it off and wear your shirt with suspenders. He said if he didn't wear a suit jacket for my nan's funeral. He's not wearing one ever. Even to his own...
Questions: 1. Was I right to be a bit miffed at my future MIL for the silver dress?2. How do I even address my brother... he's very stubborn?3. Why are people testing my Jesus and want to get shanked 😤😡😠🤬??