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Who Will Be My Moh?

Martha, on February 5, 2020 at 11:40 PM Posted in Planning 0 5

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I am having trouble deciding who I want to be my maid of honor; my longest closest friend since 14 (25 now) or my co-worker that I’ve known and gotten really close with in about 3 years. I want both to be in my bridal party but i can’t decide who should be MOH. I know some people do co-maid of honor but I really don’t want to do that, and it would mess up the number of groomsmen to bridesmaids since we have 5 of each. Any ideas of how to chose one?

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Latest activity by Jaime, on February 6, 2020 at 9:37 AM

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Melle · on February 5, 2020 at 11:49 PM
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I'd choose the longest closest friends but personally I'd also just make them both co maids of honor. It won't mess up your line up. I had five and two were co maids of honor and my husband had five but none were best men.
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Sarah · on February 6, 2020 at 12:03 AM
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Who would you like to handle more of the planning and responsabilities? That's a big factor in being a MOH
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D · on February 6, 2020 at 12:42 AM
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Ou that’s a tricky one. I would say whichever one you are closest to at the moment. You get to enjoy having both of them there to support you and stand with you on your big day! That’s a win win!
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Kristen · on February 6, 2020 at 7:26 AM
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I would have 2. Many brides do it.
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Jaime · on February 6, 2020 at 9:37 AM
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I was in a similar situation - I have a friend who I have known for a long time since childhood and a friend that I have known lesser time (but still about 10 years) but felt closer to. I chose the friend I was closer to for MOH. I'm only having three on my side so having two MOH's would have felt weird for the one bridesmaid.
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