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Honeybee
Super December 2017

Who walks down the aisle first/last?

Honeybee, on November 16, 2017 at 1:54 PM Posted in Planning 0 13

Do the bridesmaids and groomsmen usually come out in ascending order?

Meaning, the Maid of Honor & Best Man walk down the aisle last, right before the bride?

So as the bridesmaids/groomsmen walk down, they start lining up at the alter toward the end, until the Maid of Honor & Best Man are the last to come out and line up closest to where the Bride & Groom will be standing at the alter, so that they can stand directly behind the Bride & Groom?

Or does the bridal party walk down in descending order, where the Maid of Honor & Best Man walk down the aisle first, and start lining up directly behind the groom/where the bride will be standing?

13 Comments

Latest activity by Celia Milton, on November 16, 2017 at 7:41 PM
  • AtoZ
    Devoted May 2019
    AtoZ ·
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    Typically the MOH & BM walk out first, so they will "start" the line of the wedding party. Your MOH will be closest to you.

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  • Honeybee
    Super December 2017
    Honeybee ·
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    Hmm..so the answers so far are 50/50 lol

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  • firstoneat56
    Master August 2017
    firstoneat56 ·
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    If you look up Wedding Processional order, you will see all different suggestions. There really is no hard and fast rule. You go last, flower girl before you, ring bearer before flower girl and the rest is subjective. Some people have a GM and a BM walking together, some separately. Some have the groom walking the aisle, some do not.

    You DOC should be able to help you with this.

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  • caitlin
    Super May 2017
    caitlin ·
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    I think you can be creative with this one, i've seen lots of combos! we basically just had H walk in, then our WP come in in pairs (each pair was one from my side one from H's, they weren't all boy-girl) then me and my parents.

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  • mrsmack
    VIP April 2017
    mrsmack ·
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    I've always seen MOH and BM go last. Our officiant lined us up so that MOH was the last to go before me and the other BMs were in height order. Our order was:

    Officiant

    DH and MIL

    My brother and MOB

    Best Man with groom's aunt

    DH's groomsman

    1st BM

    2nd BM

    MOH

    FOB and I

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  • Future Mrs B.
    Devoted June 2018
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    Not 100% sure, but I think we're going to have the GM already lined up and have the BM walk down on their own. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think it's GM/BM, RB, FG, then bride and they line up as they arrive at the front starting closest to bride and groom then filing in down the line.

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  • AtoZ
    Devoted May 2019
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    I guess stuff around my area is a bit backwards according to this thread LOL!

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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    Any wedding I have been to or been in MOH goes last, with BM, if he walks down the aisle. Most the men are already up there waiting.

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  • Honeybee
    Super December 2017
    Honeybee ·
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    I was planning on having the groomsmen and bridesmaids come down in pairs, with the MOH & BM last, but one of my bridesmaids told me I was wrong, and that the Maid of Honor/Best Man usually walk down first, and she confused me lol

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  • pammat
    VIP October 2017
    pammat ·
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    We went out groomsmen first (because they were on the far side of the platform), then my guys, then DH and I.

    All that to say...do whatever makes sense in your case.

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  • Sarah
    Beginner April 2018
    Sarah ·
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    If GM and BM are walking together MOH and BM go last, if they are walking by themselves Groomsmen go in descending order and Bridesmaids go in ascending order, hope that makes sense

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  • Michael V
    Michael V ·
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    My wedding couples are 50/50 on this one. The only difference is if your besties walk out first they take their place near the center of your ceremony space leaving room for bride and groom, of course, and all couples that follow fill in behind then from the inside out. If your besties come out last then the very first couple to walk out has to position themselves at the far ends of your ceremony space and each couple that follows fills in the gap from the outside in with the Maid of Honor and Best Man being the last couple before the bride makes her entrance. Talk with your officiant and DOC then practice both to see which one you prefer. Best wishes!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    There is no right or wrong. Personally, I prefer (assuming a bride and groom)

    Me

    Groom

    Best Man

    Groomsmen

    Parents of Groom (If they don't walk him down)

    Parents/Mom of Bride (if both don't walk her down)

    BM's

    MOH last

    kids

    Bride and escort

    This scenario has the GM filling from the BM out and the BM's filling from the outside in.

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