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FutureMrs.E
Dedicated July 2016

Who typically throws the bridal shower?

FutureMrs.E, on February 6, 2016 at 8:31 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 42

Nobody seems to know ! Is it mother? Bridesmaids? maid of honor?

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Latest activity by JoJo, on February 8, 2016 at 11:54 AM
  • J
    Dedicated November 2016
    Jennifer ·
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    My maid of honor is throwing my bridal shower.

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  • Reggie
    Master September 2015
    Reggie ·
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    Most often it is the BMs/MOH but it can be others. Some people will say it shouldn't be the mom/MIL because that's like her asking for people to buy her daughter/DIL presents but personally I don't see an issue with it and it's very common around here. I would say at least 25% of showers around here are thrown by the mom/MIL (usually mom) or at least with her help. My mom and MOH co-hosted my shower and my aunt helped. Many people have different ideas about this and I always find it funny how varied they can be. The mom of one of BMs got all huffy because according to her it was always meant to be the aunt(s) or friends of the mom who threw the shower. To her that was a rule you just didn't break and I had never even heard of it.

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  • Michelle
    Expert October 2016
    Michelle ·
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    My bridal party is throwing mine, though I'm pretty sure my mother is going to try to contribute financially

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  • Jersey
    Master November 2016
    Jersey ·
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    My MOH and mom are throwing mine. Technically moms aren't supposed to host, but my mom didn't feel right accepting my bridesmaids offer to pay.

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  • RJmargo
    Master May 2016
    RJmargo ·
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    My mother is throwing mine with the help of my MOH and bridesmaids. Every shower I've been to has been thrown by the mother(s) and bms.

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  • Glam0rous
    VIP June 2016
    Glam0rous ·
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    My aunt and mom are throwing mine.

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  • cjs_mommy_337
    Super July 2016
    cjs_mommy_337 ·
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    Two of my cousins are throwing mine

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  • mellymel
    Super October 2016
    mellymel ·
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    My MOH, BMs and mom are throwing mine

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  • Haley
    VIP October 2016
    Haley ·
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    My mother and FMIL are throwing mine.

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  • danielleesme
    VIP May 2016
    danielleesme ·
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    I think mine will be a joint effort of my sister (MOH), my mum, and my step-mum. My sister is only 19, so I anticipate that the mums will be loads of help Smiley smile

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  • Brenda
    Devoted June 2016
    Brenda ·
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    I was told it's my Fiance's godmother job.

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  • Tawanna
    Super March 2016
    Tawanna ·
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    My mom, MIL, and Bridal Party

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  • Kels
    Master August 2016
    Kels ·
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    Mine is being thrown by a bridesmaid who lives locally.

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  • Reggie
    Master September 2015
    Reggie ·
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    @Brenda, you mean she offered to or someone said it's supposed to be the grooms godmother who always throws the shower? Because really it's whoever offers more than anything and many people don't have godparents. I honestly only know one or two people who do.

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  • Brenda
    Devoted June 2016
    Brenda ·
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    @Reggie it's funny how that came up. In our family it's usually the mother in law that throws the shower so my mother mentioned it to my mother in law and she said in her family the godmother throws the shower. I didn't say anything then a few months later I saw his godmother and she was all excited to plan the shower. It will be good for her, her daughter passed away last year of cancer at the age of 29. It's just different than I'm used to

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  • Ostrich
    Master April 2016
    Ostrich ·
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    You shouldn't be involved in shower planning besides providing a guest list IF asked. Nobody has to throw one, and if nobody is offering then you may not get one. PLEASE don't go to your bridal party telling them they should

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  • S&P
    Master January 2017
    S&P ·
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    My MOH/sister is throwing mine and my godmother told my mom she wanted to contribute which was really sweet and unexpected! My bridesmaids will probably help too.

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  • Niki
    Master June 2016
    Niki ·
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    My mom, aunt, and sister(MoH) are throwing mine. ive always found the 'your mom/sister' shouldnt host your shower to be really outdated.

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  • Kayla
    Savvy June 2016
    Kayla ·
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    My MOH is throwing mine and my bachelorette partyas well.

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  • Private User
    Super December 2016
    Private User ·
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    I just got back from one!! The MOH is the bride's 17 year old sister so the MOB handled most of it. I'm a BM but am going to college 5 hours away so they just asked me to make a banner and show up ...

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