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Em
Just Said Yes September 2022

Who should walk who down the aisle

Em, on July 26, 2022 at 10:14 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8
My fiancé and I are disagreeing on who should walk who down the aisle. My step sister is in my wedding party and my step brother is in his wedding party. We are wondering if it is common to have brother and sister walk down together or to have them walk down with other party members. We have the numbers to do either. I feel as though having them walk down with other members fits better for them, but wondering what other people have done.


thx

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Latest activity by Jacks, on July 27, 2022 at 5:25 PM
  • Imani
    Master July 2022
    Imani ·
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    Either or would work. I don’t see a problem with whatever you choose. Is it a reason why you don’t want them walk down together?
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  • Leslie
    Devoted December 2022
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    I agree^ either way would work nothing wrong with whatever you choose. I’m having bridesmaids and groomsmen walk seperately/solo
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  • S
    Super September 2022
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    It really doesn’t matter. Maybe ask them what they are more comfortable with. I gave my brother and his sister the choice of who they want to walk with. But ours kind of just worked out with who knows who.
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  • Erin
    Super May 2022
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    That’s more of a personal preference thing that would be up to you and/or themselves. Whatever all of you guys are comfortable with will be fine as it your wedding.
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  • Paige
    VIP October 2022
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    Totally just comes down to personal preference. I think asking whether each person is more comfortable with the other or would prefer to walk with someone else would be a good way to decide. We're just having ours walk in in a reverse of the order they'll be lined up (i.e. bridesmaids/ groomsmen then MOH/ BM).

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  • Brittany
    Devoted October 2022
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    I feel like asking everyone who they'd be most comfortable walking with opens it up to confusion and hurt feelings if not everyone is on the same page and doesn't get matched up with the person they requested. I think you and your fiancé need to decide based on how you want people to be lined up at the altar after walking down the aisle - that might be a good way to find compromise!

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
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    Do what works for you. There’s no right or wrong and they will only together for a few seconds.
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  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    Any way is fine!

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