Who should walk me down the Aisle?

*aisle

Have your brother or grandmother do it. Have them both, even. Just because he's blood doesn't mean he earned the honor of walking you.

Aisle.

You can have whoever you want walk you down the aisle. Or no one. It's entirely your choice and no one else should even have a say.

Yes, pick who you want. It's an honor.

Both my parents walked with me. You don't need a male relative, to do it. My sister's friend had her grandmother walk with her; both her parents were there, but she chose to honor her grandmother, in that way.

To me, that is a position of great honor that should go to someone who had a major role in getting your life/ who you are.

For me, that's my stepdad. I wouldn't even consider my bio dad (somewhat similar situation to yours.) Don't be afraid to break the mold and walk down by yourself. It's whatever feels most genuine to you.

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I would go with who you want. Remember this is your day. Don't let other people make decisions for you. If you are questioning if your father should do it but you don't think he's "earned" then you shouldn't have him. Again, it's who you want not who anyone else wants

I think it would be very sweet to walk with your mother and grandmother down the aisle!

I agree with your mother or grandmother or like LindseyO said both of them could walk to you down the aisle. Just pick someone you feel the closest with. Like PP said, if you feel like you don't really have one it's completely normal just to walk down by yourself. I know lot's of friends who have done that.

It doesn't have to be a male relative like others have said, but if you feel like you're "picking someone just for the sake of picking them," then walk alone. There is nothing wrong with that. I think someone walking you down the aisle is very special, but not a must. If you do wish to have someone walk you down the aisle you should ask them.

I love the idea of your grandmother, especially if she helped to raise you.

I am having my step father walk me down he is more than worthy. I'd say your grandma may be the perfect person if she raised you. If you would rather be more traditional and have a male I would ask your brother.

Please don't do your dad just because of tradition. I have a similar relationship with my dad and people are always going on about tradition and it just simply does not apply in my case.

My mom is walking me down. I think having you grandmother or brother would be adorable. You could even do both!

Pick who means the most to you. It is a huge honor and you don't want to regret it later. I say forget the tradition and just do what you wanna do.

Same issue here. I did my dad to keep the peace but he's been no non responsive about my wedding I may walk alone as my mom is currently handicapped so doesn't want all eyes on her walking as she uses a cain

I think it's whoever you really want, like it has been said before, it really is an honor! You could even have your mom and grandmother walk you down the aisle, which would be really cool to have all three generations present. If you don't feel like he's earned the right, don't feel pressured because of "tradition"! I'm in the same boat of not being close with my dad and my mom is going to walk me down the aisle.