Who should the ring bearer match?

Whoever you want.

Hi Blair!! I don't think it matters whether the ring bearer matches the groom or the groomsmen. I personally would want him to match the groomsmen, let the groom stand out more, but that's just me.

Where are you looking for ring bearer clothes? That might also effect what color suit he gets.

Our groomsmen and my hsuband all wore navy suits, the only difference was my husband had a burgundy tie and vest while the guys didn't have vests and did blue ties. Our ring bearer was 14 months old at the time and he wore navy pants, white shirt, and a blue bow tie. So he matched the groomsmen more I would say. But honestly it's whatever you want.