Who should organize bridal shower? *no maid of honor*

I think if no one offers, than there isn't really a way to do it? If they know their is no MOH, than they probably know it would fall on them. I would wait for someone to offer!

Someone has to offer to host it whether you have a bridal party or not. If no one offers to host, then no bridal shower.

I think you have to see if anyone offers to throw it. I don't have a bridal party (no MOH either obviously) so am in a similar situation to you. My aunts offered to co-host a shower for me. I was however, totally prepared to not have one though.

My bridal party contacted my mom and my aunts contacted my mom about throwing me a shower so maybe they are working on something and you aren't aware? (I actually feel weird about having a shower since it's a DW wedding but I also don't think there is anyway of stopping these ladies. )

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My brother-in-law told me that my stepmother was asking my stepsister (bridesmaid) what was going on for a bridal shower and she said she didn't know. So, there's nothing in the works at this point. She mentioned she didn't have contact info for the other girls, but I sent an email introducing everyone a few months ago with that information. Not sure if I should tactfully re-send it or maybe come up with a reason to e-mail everyone?

If nobody offers, you don't have one. It's not polite to ask people to host something that is in your honor.

Anyone can offer to throw you a shower. Even if you had a MOH it doesn't need to be her. I didn't have a MOH either, just 3 bridesmaids and they managed to communicate together and organize a shower for me.

Whoever offers otherwise, no one.

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I would it's possible they forgot or even accidentally deleted the email. It sounds like they want to throw you one without involving you just need some contact info so think of something you can send out as a group and hopefully something will catch on

Well first of all, you can still have a MOH even if he doesn't have a best man, and he can have 2 best men if he wants to. Sides don't have to be even, in numbers or in titles.

That said, in my circle, it's always the mother of the bride that hosts the shower. But unfortunately, if no one offers to throw you one, then you're kind of stuck without one. If you're close with your mom and talk a lot, you might be able to get away with saying "my friends keep asking me about a bridal shower..." and see if she offers any information about it.

My MOH lives states away and is only able to make it to the wedding.

For the bachelorette part I kinda threw it myself. It was a dinner and a show type of thing. I bought the show tickets and my friends treated me to dinner. It was nice!

I’d probably ask a mother to plan since that is who planned the one bridal shower I’ve been to. My friend’s mom and aunt were so happy to host. I don’t think I am going to have a bridal shower since none of my in-town friends seem to want to do that kind of thing and my parents/family all live states away. Not a loss though. I would feel honored and so happy if someone wanted to plan one though. Ah, well.

Just like anyone else, anyone can offer to give you the gift of hosting a shower. If no one offers you don't get one. Same thing goes for bachelorette parties as well

Whoever offers.