Neither of us! We had just rented a place to move in together, 10 months after we met, and were talking, what we would put where, how much stuff we needed, and next thing are talking, well now that we just paid off each of our school loans (separately, and came up with 4 months rent, instead if dropping our side jobs, we should really just turn a credit union joint savings into a wedding account. We had both been thinking, we will get married, never having talked about it. Like how we wet, neither of us ever asked the other one out. Just sort if happened naturally.