Who gets flowers at the wedding?

My brother is not in the wedding party, but he will be getting a boutonierre.

@#ginggotthering Thank you, I will most likely get my brother one.

We will be doing all you said, plus corsages for FH Aunt (she is playing our ceremony music at the church), and boutonnieres/corsage for our readers (my brother and FSIL). We are blessed to still have grandparents around so they will be getting bouts/corsages as well.

My brother was not in the wedding party, but he also got a boutonnière. He also walked my mom down the aisle.

@TarHeel729 That's a good idea. I could incorporate my brother by having him walk my mother down the aisle.

@Melissa I didn't think about boutonnieres or corsages for the readers. I will take that into consideration as well!

I believe we will do bouts and corsages for our godparents and maybe my 2 brothers.

The someone is walking another person down the aisle or as an usher I feel like they should have flowers. Also, include godparents because it's a nice way to honor them.

We have everything you said plus we're doing bouts for ushers. We're also having a catholic mass so we have a bouquet for Mary.

@FutureMrsK @txncdelphia Oof. That's a problem. FH has 12 pairs of godparents... I'm not sure we would be able to afford that. I don't have any godparents, however. (FH was my sponsor during RCIA). Perhaps we will consider DIYing them.

@Andie Thanks for mentioning that. I don't think we will have ushers, but will definitely need a bouquet for Mary. Thanks!

I'm an only child and his siblings were all in the wedding

We added corsages for the guest book hostess and female reader and boutineres for the ushers and male reader

ETA: Catholic mass and did a single rose for Mary as well

12 pairs of godparents?! Oh heavens to Betsy. How?!

@tj, thats a lot of godparents! I only have 2 lol so thats why i suggested it. I dont even know if FH has any.

Parents, Grandma, and one aunt and uncle for us.

You covered the bases. Anything besides those you listed are optional.

Other than the actual wedding party, I just got corsages for the moms and grandmas, and boutineers (however you spell that) for the dad's and grandpas. My husbands sister wasn't in the wedding and I didn't get a corsage for her. Oops. Didn't think about that. I personally think all that crap is stupid and a waste of money but I figured my mom and grandmas would be all offended if I didn't do it.

I'm basically doing the same as you. I wouldn't worry about every extra family member unless your super close or want to honor them.

@txncdelphia @FutureMrsK to be honest I have no idea!! FH is Filipino so I thought originally it could be due to his culture but my best friend is also Filipino and she only has two pairs of godparents. Only FH and his sister have a lot of god parents so I think it's just a family thing haha. His extensive list of godparents stresses me out cause we have to invite all of them to our wedding and I can't imagine how it'll be honoring all of them! I guess his 12 pairs helps make up for me not having godparents haha

We have them for everyone in the wedding party. Bridesmaids have bouquets, flower girl has petals and a flower crown, groomsmen fathers and ring bearer have bouteniers, my mom and his aunt get corsages.