Hi everyone,
So this has been on my mind lately and I really need some help.
Some background: My mom and I have had our fair share of issues because she has a lot of personal things going on in her life and was not exactly the best mom she could be. As I have gotten older, we have had a much better relationship- however, throughout the wedding process she basically has peaced out because she doesn't want to pay for anything and is frankly 'Very busy' with my half brother's (12 yr old) basketball league. Since she had my brother, she has tried to do things right with him.
On the other hand, I also had a poor relationship with my stepmom but we have become super close as adults and she has been all in with wedding planning and is paying the majority with my dad. She's been in my life since I was 4 years old and I have both of her daughters(step sisters) in my bridal party who will be getting ready with me.
-Now: My mom and stepmom do not get along at all. (Alot of jealousy on my mom's part) However, I feel weird having my mom, bridal party (some of which are my step sisters) get ready with me and NOT invite my stepmom to get ready with me as well. She has truly not wanted to step on any toes and I dont even know if she would want to be there to avoid that tension for me- but should I at least offer? I also dont want my step sisters to feel insulted that I did not invite their mother to get ready with us in the morning.
I'm so stuck.