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Jessi L.
Savvy May 2008

white dinner jacket in May?

Jessi L., on February 3, 2008 at 7:19 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 3

Since we got engaged ? all my FH talked about was a white dinner jacket. I checked several months ago and what I found was completely confusing ? even old-school etiquette contradicted itself. I said ? we do what we want to do ? we never wanted a semi-formal wedding ? but it turned out to be ? but none of it follows the rules all the way. And as you sis?s know ? he is somewhat traditional. As we went from store to store ( again) looking for tuxedoes and ties ? he started to question the look. after all he does not get many choices when it comes to a wedding ? so what he and his men wear should be a choice. Can anyone help? The wedding is May 2, 6:30pm. Thanks!

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Latest activity by bing, on March 15, 2011 at 10:34 PM
  • Nicole N.  Roorda
    Nicole N. Roorda ·
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    Hi Jessie,

    I am an event planner, but i also work in a bridal store in my free time (whenever that is) lol. So we deal with a lot of tuxedo rentals for weddings and formals. Here are the guidelines:

    A white jacket (ivory, actually) is a good alternative from mid-April to Labor Day.

    (excerpt taken from BBG)

    Technically, before 6 pm you should wear a morning coat (frequently pearl grey) with a waistcoat, ascot, and stiff white shirt. That being said, you'll rarely see some guy dressed that way (unless he's driving a vintage Rolls, and even then, come on, dude) and we doubt anyone will say anything if you choose to just sport a dinner jacket instead.

    Semi-formal (after 6 pm) means a tuxedo, black bow tie and matching cummerbund. This is appropriate for black tie events.

    Formal is really formal, as in a tailcoat (which is rarely worn these days) and white tie, with a white waistcoat. These days, "formal" means roll with your (own) tuxedo.

    N'chelle

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  • Tammany kladis
    Tammany kladis ·
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    Jessi, good evening!

    I am a wedding planner as well and also work in a bridal store part time an love the comment the previous poster made "what ever part time that is" I got married 2 years ago in May my husband wore White jacket, black pants, with a color cordinating vest. He was so handsome that day! Dont worry about anyone else.. Do what the both of you want!

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  • Jessi L.
    Savvy May 2008
    Jessi L. ·
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    Thanks - we finally convinced we him that he can war WHATEVER he wants and the @#$@#$@@# with etiquette.

    He is going to buy white dinner jacket that he liked and can keep..

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