Which Decision?😩

Does your state have any current restrictions? At the end of the day that’s what can determine it. Personally I would keep my current number and do as you said, ask if they still feel comfortable depending on what happens with Covid. Virtual will definitely still be a good idea though!

I think it all depends on where you are getting married and what the current restrictions are. We are planning our October wedding in FL and have a guest list of 50 (always that way) and currently don't need to reduce our count.

View Quoted Comment Great! I think I will go that route. It’ll be in Texas and we’ve been a hotspot for quite some time. I haven’t looked into restrictions yet because I know for my state it changes a lot but I will look into that.

View Quoted Comment Oh yes Texas is one of the states that’s been open. I would wait until a little closer to decide.

View Quoted Comment What will be a good time to decide?

View Quoted Comment When do you plan on sending out invitations? September/October?

View Quoted Comment I sent our save the dates in February and it had our website and everything on it where people can rsvp. in October I was just gonna ask will they or will they not attend.

View Quoted Comment Oh okay so you’re not sending out actual invites? I think making a decision late September or October would be fine

Generally, at your reception, you do not invite those at an earlier wedding if you had 40-50. If you started with a 5-10 person family only marriage, and maybe went to dinner, the as key family and no reception, they would go to a later reception along with those who missed the original small private ceremony. But if you had a small reception for 50 they do not come back for a do o er. For a vow renewal later perhaps, but not a second reception. One wedding each guest, if the first has lots of guests, and virtual watchers who see yup, all those people were there once already.