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Where my sister's Plus ones should stay??? please Help!

Jordan, on December 10, 2019 at 8:59 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 13

Little back story... sorry if it is long. At our wedding venue there is a total or 8 bed rooms, we had already planned that my sisters (i have 3), my FH sister, all 4 are bridesmaids, and my MOH & her significant other are all staying there. My mom and dad. My Aunt ( I am really close with), Uncle and my cousin (she's 7 & our flower girl) are staying there also. So everyone that is getting ready with us is there and we have already assigned all the rooms and they are full.

Now all 3 of my sisters have a boy friend and of course they want them to come to the wedding. I have no problem with them coming but IDK where to put them over night? There is a hotel we blocked out for our guests about 20 minutes away but 2 of them are around 18, so they cant book a hotel and the other is 26. Should i see if the oldest BF can rent a hotel room and all of my sisters plus ones would stay there? I really only want the people in the wedding to be at the venue with me while i get ready. What do I do?!?!?! Please HELP!!!

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Latest activity by Jeanie, on December 11, 2019 at 2:13 AM
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    Neeva ·
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    Get the older one to book a hotel room or y'all book rooms for the guys at the other hotel

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    Veronica ·
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    Can't they come in the morning to get ready with you? I'm not sure why they have to stay with you.
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  • Jordan
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    Jordan ·
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    That's what i am thinking. Side note that sister and her BF are kind of having major issues right now, and honestly it isn't looking like they will make it to the wedding. I don't want to be negative but knowing my sister, she's about done. What do you think I should do if that happens?


    Or, if they do stay together should I see if the younger two can help chip in for the hotel room?

    The night of the wedding me and my FH will go to a hotel so after that, they (sister's Plus ones) can totally stay at the venue in place of me.

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  • Jordan
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    Jordan ·
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    Well we live in Las Vegas and the wedding is in California so they would have to travel the night before to get there.

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    I guess I don't understand why everyone isn't staying at the hotel.
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    Jordan ·
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    The Venue is going is at my FH's uncles ranch, so we are setting up a lot of things the night before and we are going to help set stuff up the day of. It will also be easier to keep an eye on everything and not have to worry about driving the day of. Smiley smile Everyone else will be staying at a hotel besides the few people listed above.

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    Can the guys share a room with your sisters or could your sisters share a room that way there would be space for the guys?
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    Nevermind I missed the part where you said the rooms are full. The best option would be to have the oldest boyfriend book a room. The only other options I can think of is if there is space to set up like blow up mattresses or sleeping bags or if your uncle has couches they could sleep on. Those options don't sound comfortable though.
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    Yeah that might work, if they sleep on blow up mattresses. I just feel bad making them do that. But, then just have then hangout with my dad and uncle while all the girls get ready with me?

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    If you have the room that's what I would do. My sister's now husband hung out with my grandfather because they drove two hours the morning of the wedding to the venue for my sister to get ready with me. My grandmother was getting ready with us so it made sense for the two of them to hang out. My dad and brother were with my husband at the time.
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    Jordan ·
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    That sounds good! Thanks so much for the input, I was getting super stressed out over the situation.

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    You're welcome 😊 looking back it's crazy how we stress over us simple things.
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    Either have a room at the hotel booked by the oldest boyfriend, or one of your sisters can book it. It’s not your job to figure out their man problems. If you want to be super nice, book the room in your name for them. But definitely don’t give in to letting them stay in the house with you. It sounds like it’s going to be a packed house to begin with, and it’s your wedding day, not a group date. You don’t have to feel bad about telling them their dates are not welcome. If anything, they should feel bad about asking for them to come while you get ready.
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