Where do i find this?

Can you just find a lace doily to fold up? I imagine its probably cheaper.

View Quoted Comment There are bulk and bulging problems with this.

Hey Hermione! If you search for a lace handkerchief on Etsy or Amazon there are some options available.

I love the look you are going for What color are your BM's wearing?

Have you thought about having someone stitch a piece of a doily to the top of a plain pocket square? One doily could make 3-4 pocket squares that way.

Oh Hannah makes a great point! What about visiting a fabric store for some lace fabric, or a department store for a lace handkerchief?

https://www.poszetka.com/product-eng-4989-lace-pocket-square.html#close

Looks like it's shipped from Poland.

There's also this on etsy.

https://www.etsy.com/listing/668377978/lace-handkerchief-pocket-square-white?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=lace+pocket+square&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&organic_search_click=1&frs=1&col=1

View Quoted Comment Bm Various little black dresses with a blush shawl and a single white polo rose.

That's close to the groom's boutonniere (double rose succulent) and that is the groomsmen boutonnieres.

Groom is going to wear a slate blue tie and a black suit white shirt.

The groom is picking the groomsmen attire other than the floral because it was a 5 hour commute for either both or one of us.

We're trying to match my dress which is a lot of lace and my bouquet which is a combo of those (blue hydrangeas, succulents, white roses, rosemary, white stock, various eucalyptus). By we I mean he gave me "I will wear x items and you pick the colors and style closest so I am surprised by the dress."

I just got back from the florist and I am so happy because I spent $400 with a budget of $500. They helped a lot with keeping it affordable.

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I think this is the best idea. Just head over to a local fabric store and see about getting some lace squares.

View Quoted Comment Sweet, I think we found it ladies and gentlemen. I think I was using the wrong search terms and that's why I couldn't find it.

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This all sounds great!!

Well done on keeping your flowers under budget! That's a major win for you they look awesome too! I love the blue in your bouquet, it's so delicate and pretty!

You look so beautiful in your dress!! Will you also be wearing this veil?