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Where did you and your guests stay the night before and the night of the wedding?

The Sealpups, on April 30, 2019 at 2:39 PM Posted in Planning 0 5

We're very lucky that our reception venue is near hotels! There's a silver cloud inn right across the street from our venue! We have so many options, including booking other hotels (less than half a mile away) for our guests. I think right now we're trying to figure out if we should stay at the hotel (silver cloud inn) across the street or go to a "bigger" one that's less than half a mile away) that are much newer (staybridge suites and "evan" hotels, if you've heard of them).

If I were to stay at a hotel the night before, I would be with my sister (moh) and tell the other bridesmaids the hotel we're staying at. That way, they can book and just go to our room when hair/makeup are in action. Fiancé will stay at the same hotel the night before and the night of, I can just move and stay in that room. (Parents wanted him to stay in their timeshare that is a couple blocks away but I don't think that's a good idea. Too far).

I haven't figured out the transportation yet. I'm not too fond of a limo but maybe thinking of either taking an uber to to the church or maybe just have them drive with their spouses/families. That night, husband and I will move into our own room the night or the wedding Any suggestions?


I'd be needing advice with:

- hotel: stay at the one across the street (where guests would go) OR stay at the other hotels that are bigger (other guests may stay there too) Does it matter? or am i missing something?

Also, I think the hotel across the street has a free shuttle service.

- transportation: not liking the limo idea and usually not necessary. I've seen bridesmaids just drive themselves to the church and back, etc.. would it be best to just have them drive with their spouses/families to the church themselves (when we all go together) or maybe have an uber for a big van?

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Latest activity by Alisha, on July 11, 2019 at 7:03 PM
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Stay at whichever hotel you like! There is definitely no rule of which hotel you should stay at. Do you think 1 is fancier than the other? Is it more important for you to be closer, to go with the cheaper one, the fanciest one, etc. We are staying at one down the street and is the same hotel we have the hotel block with for guests.
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  • Cristy
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    I think it's a matter of personal preference. There are a bunch of hotels right across from our venue, so out of town guests will have lots of choices. Also, most of the wedding party will be staying over there the night before, so we're all in the same place in the morning, when it's time to do hair and makeup.

    But, FH and I have decided to move to a fancier hotel room, in another city, after the wedding. We want to spend our wedding night AWAY from our guests, parents, children, relatives. No offense to them, as we love them all very much. We just want our wedding night to be private. I don't want my 3-year old granddaughter to bust in looking for "Mamaw and Papa" lol

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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
    Sinéad ·
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    Hey! Have you decided which hotel you would like to stay in the night before and the night of your wedding?

    As the pp's mentioned, it's entirely personal preference, whether you want to be closer to the venue, whether you want a nicer hotel, etc.

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  • Zoe O'Berne
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    Zoe O'Berne ·
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    A lot of our guests are local-ish. So, I'm assuming most of them will be staying at home and out of towners will be staying at various hotels and AirBNBs around the city. We provided a list of recommended hotels nearby so that each guest could choose one in their price range.

    The night before the wedding, my fiance and his groomsmen will all be crashing at our house. The bridesmaids and I are staying at an AirBNB bungalow. It's going to serve as "home base" the days leading up to the wedding. On the wedding night itself, the wedding party will be disbursing to their own hotels and the bungalow will act as our honeymoon suite.

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  • Alisha
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    Alisha ·
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    It is a matter of preference. We have hotels not for from our venue (maybe 10 minutes away). We are planning to block rooms but our guests are more than welcome to make their own arrangements to stay at a hotel of their preference.

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