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Malei
Super October 2018

When/how/why did you announce the wedding party?

Malei, on March 20, 2018 at 2:42 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 18

So I'm kind of a private person and don't really like the attention and/or spotlight and my FH, bridesmaids, and groomsmen all have pretty similar personalities. I wasn't going to mention them on the website, invitations, and we're not having programs. Basically the only time anyone at the reception will really know who they are (besides our thank you speech and gifts to them at the rehearsal dinner) is during the grand entrance and I haven't decided yet if I want the MC to do a short blurb of them outside of their names and where they're from. Is this okay? I honestly don't think they'd mind not being mentioned on everything but I also don't want them to feel unappreciated. Would you feel under valued if you weren't mentioned on anything?

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Latest activity by Valerie, on March 20, 2018 at 7:45 PM
  • Annie
    VIP October 2018
    Annie ·
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    I've never seen the bridal party mentioned on invitations before, so that would be odd. When I was a bridesmaid in my cousins wedding, the only time our names came up were during introductions into the reception. Obviously people knew who we were prior due to the bridal shower, but she didn't print up programs with our names. Programs are a waste of money unless you're doing a religious ceremony.

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  • BoudreauToBe
    Master July 2018
    BoudreauToBe ·
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    People will know who they are because they are standing next to you wearing matching attire.

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  • BrandiWeds18
    VIP May 2019
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    Right, you don't have to put them on the website if you dont want to. I've been considering not doing it. Not a big deal i think everyone will know they are in the bridal party once they see them standing next to you and when they walk in the reception. I think having the DJ say their name upon entry is more than enough

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  • EngineerInLove
    VIP September 2018
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    I've only ever seen BPs "announced" on FB (which I don't like), and on wedding websites. I don't think it needs to be announced necessarily. The only thing I would make sure you do is give everyone each other's phone numbers and/or email addresses. I sent an email to all the BMs and the moms so they could coordinate Bridal shower or bachelorette party details if they wanted to.
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  • Munchkin9218
    Master September 2018
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    We didn't make any kind of announcement because 1. Most people don't care 2. It only matters that those you ask know they are in the party 3. People will see it the day of the wedding.


    You can always put it up on your website and anyone who cares will take a peak but overall its not something the world needs or cares to know

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  • Miaaa
    Super January 2018
    Miaaa ·
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    You can do it on the website but it's not necessary. I've never been "announced" before the reception, and none of our bridal party was announced before the reception (or I guess walking into church really).

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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
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    We included our wedding party on the website and church programs but we didn't do a grand entrance so they weren't "formally" announced.

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  • Kaylyn
    Super May 2019
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    I'm not going to announce my bridal party. People close to us (which is 90% of the guest list) will know who the wedding party consists of. The only people listed on anything will be me, FW, and our parents. The party already knows they're some of our nearest and dearest, I don't think their names need to be listed anywhere

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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
    Mrs. Fall Bride ·
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    A "short blurb" about who they are while announcing them into the reception is not a thing. That really belongs on a wedding website. Everyone will know who they are because they'll see them standing next to you at the altar. When they're introduced by the MC, he should just say their names and that's it. No one will be listening, or frankly, care in that moment how you know each person.

    You show your appreciation by giving a thank you gift, not sharing their life story during your reception.

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  • Michelle
    VIP September 2018
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    We never formally announced our bridal party. We just asked them to be in it. Then when people ask I just tell them who is in it
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  • Malei
    Super October 2018
    Malei ·
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    Thanks for your input! I completely agree with all of you but I'm also part of a wedding crafting group and I've been seeing signs with their wedding parties' names on them and it happens so often that I wonder if it's even necessary.


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  • Kiwibride
    Super November 2018
    Kiwibride ·
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    Not necessary. If people are that interested in their relationship to you then they can ask them during cocktail hour
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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    It will be obvious who they are, because they'll be the ones standing up front during the ceremony. I'm not sure a formal announcement really adds to that. Those who know them will already know their names, etc. Those who don't aren't terribly likely to be interested in strangers whom they will probably never see again.

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  • Ella Marie
    Devoted May 2019
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    We put our bridal party on our website and for our reception, I’m having a sign made listing all their names. As well as the officiant and our parents names. Similar to this picture. We aren’t having a DJ.

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  • O
    Master October 2017
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    Wedding party intros into the reception aren't necessary-I didn't know them before, certainly won't remember later type of thing.
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  • Future Mrs M
    Super June 2018
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    We put them under the wedding website.

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  • Lauren
    Expert June 2019
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    There's no reason to announce them at all. If you don't want to, then don't do it
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  • Valerie
    Devoted September 2018
    Valerie ·
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    I didn’t put our wedding party on our website and we aren’t going to do a grand enterance introducing them all (just us coming in). Possibly doing a program or sign that has names. But I wouldn’t be upset because what matters is spending the day and being by the couples side on their special day. I wouldn't feel less valued not being announced or written in a program
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