At what point in the evening did you have your bustle tied and about how long did it take? I'm stressing over the best time to do this. My dress has a chapel train with 13 ties and loops.
We plan to greet guests as they enter our reception for the cocktail hour from the ceremony (same location) so that will take some time. If I then go do the bustle I'm afraid I'll miss the whole cocktail hour. After the cocktail hour will be our introductions and cake cutting. Our first dance will be after dinner. I could do it just after we eat before our dance, but is it normal to already have it tied for introductions?
Ugh, I'm really regretting getting a dress with a train.