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When to open Rsvp's?

Katherine, on May 6, 2018 at 11:52 AM Posted in Planning 0 5

Hello fellow Bride's -

We're about to send out our Save the Date's, it's about 10 months to the wedding, and 90% of our guests are coming from out of town / out of country. In early Fall we will send out our invitations. When should we open up our RSVP function on the website? Now or after invitations go out?

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Latest activity by MrsD, on May 7, 2018 at 12:39 PM
  • lilam18
    Expert July 2018
    lilam18 ·
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    Are you having a plated or buffet dinner? If you’re having a plated meal you’ll need their entree selection with their RSVP, which you won’t be able to do without having your menu finalized first.

    We also liked the flexibility to add information that we wanted people to see when they went to RSVP, such as shuttle info, welcome reception details, etc. given that most people won’t go back to look at the website again.
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  • starsinwaves
    VIP November 2018
    starsinwaves ·
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    I'd do it after the invitations go out. I accidentally left mine up on the site when I sent out STDs and had someone RSVP with a date who I didn't think would be bringing a date (she's coming from across the country and her parents are paying). Now I'm gonna have to reach out closer to the wedding to confirm her +1. Not a huge deal, but it's just easier to keep RSVPs closed till you send invites with instructions to RSVP.

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  • Jen
    VIP July 2018
    Jen ·
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    Well, I am having a plated dinner so I need guests to indicate their meal choice when they RSVP. I opened up my online RVSP once I have finalized the dinner options and had that question ready to go (probably 3-4 months prior to my wedding). To date, only 2 people found the online RSVP prior to invites going out.

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  • Jillian
    Devoted August 2018
    Jillian ·
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    I had mine open when I sent out STDs so some people have already RSVPed, family and bridal party who are for sure yeses. I thought it was fun to see some people so excited for our wedding.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I opened ours already, I don't think people will use it until they know they are invited anyway

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