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Rachel
Super June 2022

When to announce that it is a no-kid wedding?

Rachel, on August 18, 2020 at 1:21 PM Posted in Planning 0 11
Hi, ladies...


I am still in the early planning stages of my wedding as it is two years away, however, my fiancé and I have talked and we decided that we would like an adult-only wedding. When is the appropriate time to announce that? Is it typically done on the official wedding invitation or the save the dates?

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Latest activity by Kiara, on August 18, 2020 at 8:15 PM
  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    I don't think you necessarily need to announce it. You can just address the invitations to the people invited. Some people put a note on their wedding website about adult only in the FAQ section, but we never announced it and simply addressed the invitations to the names of the people invited

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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    You don't really make an announcement about it. You would just address the save the dates and invitations to who you are specifically inviting. For our invitations, we put X number of seats have been reserved which made it even more clear who was invited. We also included on our website under the FAQ section that while we love everyone's children that we requested an adult-only wedding.

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  • Sherri
    Devoted August 2020
    Sherri ·
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    Just like Hanna said: never a formal announcement. But be clear when addressing envelopes. MOG and MOB are good resources to spread the word/reiterate the facts! On the website under the reception details you can consider including adults-only language.
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  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
    Margaret ·
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    As some have said, I would just notated on the invitations. That's a good time.

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  • Alexandria
    Expert November 2020
    Alexandria ·
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    I agree with MOG and MOB spreading the word, I feel like word of mouth is one of the best and easiest ways to get the information out there, especially since you have time yet. Smiley smile

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  • Lisa
    Super October 2021
    Lisa ·
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    Our wedding will be adults only with the exception of my two nieces who are flower girls. We've made it clear from the start that kids are not invited.

    We've told people in-person/text messages what our plans were and that we are keeping it adults only. Most have received it very well. When we sent out our Save the Dates and New Date cards, the envelope was addressed to Mr. and Mrs. not 'Smith Family'.

    The invitations will be sent the same way.

    On our website, under the FAQ, we put "Can I bring my children? We love ALL of your children, however, we have decided to make this an adults-only celebration. We hope you understand!"

    We just heard from FH best friend that his parents likely won't come because they will have to watch the kids. It will be hard for some who don't have a regular babysitter or family in town help out but we are sticking to our plan.

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  • Rachel
    Super June 2022
    Rachel ·
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    Thanks for this input! We are definitely not going to compromise on having kids at our wedding, either. I just don’t want to deal with that hassle and I’d like our guests to enjoy themselves. I like your way of addressing the invitations, we’ll do the same for ours!
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  • Leanne
    Super September 2020
    Leanne ·
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    I put mine on the RSVP card in small print “adults only celebration “
    I also mentioned it on our wedding website
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  • Rachel
    Super June 2022
    Rachel ·
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    Perfect! Thank you 😊
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  • Leanne
    Super September 2020
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    I sent out invitations without mentioning it first, for our original date, and I had people RSVP with their children’s names. Even after I specifically addressed them by name on the invite. When I sent my second round of invitations for our postponed date, I added the line about adults only so there was no confusion.
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  • Kiara
    VIP August 2021
    Kiara ·
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    On your invitation just make it clear that its an Adult Wedding

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