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Latonya
Devoted April 2021

When or should the bridal party meet?

Latonya, on February 3, 2020 at 2:31 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 9

Hey brides.


My bridesmaids and groomsmen dont all know each other. Well let me kinda break it down.

My bridal party consist of my hubby sister, his brothers baby mom who is like family to them, my neice, my daughter, and his toddler nieces are the flower girls. His groomsmen are his 3 brothers, our toddler son is the ring bearer. Oh and my oldest son is the officiant.

Do you think the 2 parties should meet before the big day or is it ok for everyone to meet at the rehearsal?

oh and everyone kinda met at my 40th bday dinner/engagement 2/2019, but noone really talked or mingled because of the setup at the hibachi place.

What are your thoughts?

9 Comments

Latest activity by Katie, on February 4, 2020 at 10:52 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    They don't need to meet before the wedding. It should just happen naturally when the time comes, which is likely the rehearsal.

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  • Melanie
    Savvy January 2021
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    I was thinking of having a night out for my bridesmaids to meet the groomsmen. I don’t know if it’s necessary but I just thought it’s be a good idea. I haven’t brought it up to my fiancé yet because I’m trying to get him to decide on other things first
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
    Sherry ·
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    They don't have to meet before the wedding/rehearsal but if you want to invite them all to dinner or something, have a bbq at your house that would be fine. Just know that having everyone's schedules line up might be difficult.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think it's ok to meet at rehearsal. I know at my dinner they got the chance to socialize
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  • kymarmck
    Super March 2020
    kymarmck ·
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    Most of our wedding party knows each other (if they don't know each other then they've heard of each other) just because of parties we've thrown or in just general conversation Smiley smile

    I think if everyone's schedules line up, then it would be fun to go out to dinner and meet everyone!

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  • Brittany
    Savvy February 2020
    Brittany ·
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    My bridal party hasn't met and won't meet until the rehearsal. This is mainly because half of my bridal party is out of town. I wouldn't sweat it.

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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    My husband’s groomsmen all knew each other at least slightly.. 2 of his groomsmen were from high school and 2 from college, one of the high school ones had met both of the college ones, and the other high school one had virtually met the college ones via playing online video games together over the years lol. So they all already “knew” each other for the most part.



    2 of my bridesmaids already knew each other. They met bridesmaid #3 at my shower. My fourth bridesmaid was unable to make the shower, so she met everyone at the rehearsal.

    A couple of the bridesmaids and groomsmen had met each other as well, but the rest just met at the rehearsal!
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  • Nicole
    Master September 2020
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    I don't think it's necessary for the wedding party to meet. My FH's groomspeople will meet at the bachelor trip since they don't all know each other and the groomspeople will meet my bridesmaids at the rehearsal. I didn't meet some of my sister's bridesmaids or her husbands groomsmen until we got to their rehearsal and it was fine (honestly, I don't think I said more than a few words to the groomsmen the entire weekend as we didn't need to interact much at all).

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  • Katie
    Devoted March 2019
    Katie ·
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    I don't think they necessarily need to meet before the rehearsal - and the rehearsal is a great time for everyone to get to chat and know each other better! If you are interested in having them all get to know each other before the big day, instead of a bridal shower have a couple's or "jack and jill" shower where everyone can get together. Since the wedding is still over a year away you would also have time to throw an engagement party if you want Smiley smile

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