Hello!
My dad has been in a wheelchair for the last twenty-plus years. He danced with two of my sisters at their weddings where he kind of twirled around in his electric wheelchair. He really wants to do something special. I am perfectly happy twirling, I just want a special moment with him at our wedding, I don't think it needs to be anything fancy. I've told him this, but he still wants to do something else. He just doesn't know what. The other issue is that he has a broken back that can only be fixed by surgery and he's too high risk to operate on so it will still be broken in October during the wedding. His bones are very brittle, so he frequently has broken ribs as well, so I don't want to do anything that can hurt him. He wanted to talk to a dance instructor and see if there's something we can do, but I'm worried that with his restricted movement he's really limited and I'm concerned that a dance lesson would just hurt him. I've also told my dad that, but he's got his heart set on doing something different than he did with my sisters. Any advice?
