What's your thought on having Ring bearers?

I would just proceed with the flower girl instead of having a second choise. If anyone asks or makes a big deal just say you felt safer having the rings with the best man instead of a child.

I would just proceed with the flower girl. I'm the opposite l, we have a ring bearer but no flower girl

Personally, I would skip it. You can have the officiant or best man hold the rings. I've even seen the best man hold the ring the groom gave to the bride and the MOH hold the ring the bride gave to the groom, she had it tied to her bouquet. The best part about getting married in this time is we can include or exclude any traditions as we see fit.

We have a flower girl but currently no ring bearer and are undecided on if we will find someone to fill the role or just go without one. (Leaning towards without). I agree with the previous poster who said you can just tell people you’d feel more comfortable with the rings in the hands of an adult. If you want to have someone special carry up the rings instead of the MoH or best man, do you have anyone else special in your life who you would like to have involved in your special day but couldn’t find a way to include them? I know I saw someone post on here that they asked their grandmother to be their flower girl.

We didn’t have any close young boys, so we skipped a ring bearer and only had our niece as flower girl. It was totally fine. It’s definitely not a necessary role!!

You don’t need to have either if you want. I would stick with just the flower girl. We don’t have a flower girl, just a ring bearer. But he’s just really walking bc he’s cute and 18 months is too little to carry rings lol

View Quoted Comment Thank you Lauren. I think this is exactly what im going to do!

View Quoted Comment That's my thought. I told my wedding planner im good with just the little flower girl. I just needed to hear some other thoughts

View Quoted Comment Exactly..lol...I'm not really having a traditional wedding.

View Quoted Comment The little guy is a special part of our family..his mother was in my program years ago. At this point going to proceed with the flower girl, because he cant. I dont want to replace him

View Quoted Comment I've decided to let my MOH hold his ring and the BM can hold mine.

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You're welcome! Good luck!

View Quoted Comment Flower girl it is😁

View Quoted Comment That's the plan now...😁

I will not be having a ring bearer or flower girl, it's an adult only wedding. Modern times lol

View Quoted Comment Lol.....the only children in attendance will be our daughters and now the flower girl. Non traditional garden wedding. Once the ceremony is over... Kiddos will be exiting..lol