What's your first love story?

I don’t think of my first love. I am more into my Forever Love. Who in all honesty is my First Love despite those who came before. He’s the real one.

My first love is my FH, I know that sounds like something people just say but it's true. I have had very bad and abusive (physical and verbally) relationships in the past. So, when I met FH and realized how sweet and loving he is, it was like god really sent him to heal and show me how real love is meant to be.

My 1st love is a friend but I never think of him. my hubby to be is all I care about. even when I see other nice-looking men I just start getting butterflies about my fiance. i don't even have to change my thoughts he instantly pops in my head.

I had a dream about an ex boyfriend last night!! But he’s absolutely an ex forever. I actually spent 21 years while I was married and not married wondering what could have been. About 6 years ago we were both divorcing our spouses so we met for lunches and had a few dinners together and I realized there was no way we were meant to be and I got the “what could have been” out and now we’re friends and that’s it. I wanted to marry him all my life then when I had the chance to reconnect it turns out he wasn’t the one.

Lucky me. I got married to my first love. We were in the same college. We met in an optional course, it was a first sight love, I think. We started to date out, and he always walked me to my dor. He was my first and only boyfriend (I wasn't his first girlfriend though). And after 7 years, we decided to move forward to another level of relationship. It was the night when he got promoted, he poped the question. He took a simple box out and kneeled down at home when we were in the middle of a thrilling movie (god knows why that timing). That was a very unique engagement ring with a piece of certification paper. The paper wrote, 'I promise I will love you and you only, to the end of my life', together with his signature. He customized a ring from a website Darryring at which you can only buy a ring for your true love. And he said he'd been preparing for this moment, and I was and would be the only love of his life. Now we've been married for 5 yrs, he looks at me the way he did in our college time. So, lucky me be loved by my first love. I truly wish everyone could find their soulmate, whether it's first love or not.

First love was a mess to me. I met my first love at high school when we were both very young and immature. He was in our school football team. He was handsome and full of energy. But I was just an ordinary girl. We met at a party which was held by my best friend. And she introduced me to him. I was profoundly felling in love with him while he was chased by many girls then. I felt so stressed out when we became boyfriend and girlfriend and began dating and hanging out. It's such depressing that I felt so unconfident, but I didn't tell him a bit. So he couldn't understand or realize what I was thinking or why I looked so anxious all the time. We broke up at last. Because there was so much uncertainty between us. I didn't even tell him which college I was gonna choose. But when I married my husband, and we asked him to attend our ceremony, he said that I am more confident and have changed a lot. Yes, after first love, I learned a lot. A healthy relationship relies on communication, and it should be equal. My husband and I now talk about everything. I will tell him what I want directly. He is a lovely man, and he taught me a lot and how to contain a good relationship.

Admire your experience and story with your first love. I've been with my first love for 10 yrs, but we've still not prepared enough for marriage. He bought promise rings for us, but we don't want extra rules or laws to restrain us. The ring you mentioned is too heavy for someone, I think.

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I agree that an engagement ring for only one could be a little restraining. But marriage is all about carrying all the responsibilities and duties. Law shall be a protection, and actions like ceremony and giving a unique ring is a kind of promise from a mature individual who's been prepared for making this commitment. If you two believe that you don't need extra rules in the relationship, just be it. I do agree that the perfect relationship should respect each other's decisions.

Agree. But your engagement ring sounds very precious, as well as your love story.

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Thank you, love. And I wish your happiness with your love.

Well, it was like the world suddenly changed... you feel so happy every day, and it's the first and last thing you think about every day. And you feel like this is definitely an eternal love and would last forever.

I get hesitate and shy before him, I feel uncertain about everything, but I still feel happy ever for all of this anxiety. The first time he asks me out, holds my hand, and kisses me, I can feel everything when it happened. But when it comes to a breakup, I will feel the most suffering. it’s the first time I cry so hard over another person, I can’t breathe, I feel helpless and never happy again. first love is sweet and bitter. There are not many first love couples that can last too long and get married.