Most of FH's extended family is unable to attend our wedding because they live in another country and one of his cousins is getting married the weekend after us (local to them). We've received three overly generous wedding gifts from them and we're not sure how to properly thank them. We already plan to send them a thank you card with messages from both of us, but should we do something more?
FH was thinking that we would give them a copy of our recipe book that we're making for our guestbook. It's a professionally bound book made out of recipes submitted by our invited guests. They cost about $50 each. I agree that it might be a nice way to thank someone, but if we end up buying 10 extra books, that's over $500 that could go towards the home that we're closing on next month. Am I being too frugal?