I hate flowers - always have. I am doing non-floral centerpieces and the ONLY reason we are having bridal/bridesmaid bouquets is to keep my mom happy. I don't care to preserve any bouquet so I just want to toss mine... but people are looking at me crazy saying I "have to" get a separate toss bouquet. That's crazy! Flowers are already too expensive. Did any of you actually toss your own bouquet??? Am I alone here?