What to do when you’ve lost a friend over the wedding.

We’ve been friends for over 5 years now. We’ve gotten in pittely arguements before, but managed to work it out, although I have always seemed to be the one putting in effort and apologizing. She was the closest female I ever actually called a freind. I could literally talk to her about anything. She also had a side to her were it seemed to be all about her, and what benefited which I just blew it over and didn’t take it personally.
However, during Conversations sometimes she would totally weed out everything I said, and ignored me, like anything I had to say was pointless or meaningful. I always thought that was kind of hurtful, many of times she left me on the back burner for example, like she would get free concert tickets and then post on Facebook asking people to go but never went out of her way to ask me. She hardly ever texted me to even say hi or how’s it going.

I remember the day (at a get together) I suprised her with a gift to be the MOH,she didn’t even have a reaction to it like she just expected it. She wasn’t even acknowledging that I was a little taken back by that, and seemed to be worried about my fiancé’s best friend( which she had a crush on, but he did not like her like that)... she seemed to only come around when she knew he was going to be there. Every time I asked her to hangout with just her and I, she would always have an excuse , but later on post pictures on Facebook hanging out with other people, kind of like a smack in the face. I guess I just sort of always felt like a nuisance to her, but I still considered her my best friend.

Anyways everything seems like it was going great until I got all the bridesmaids together and went dress shopping. It was overwhelming at first, because everyone was trying on dresses, including me so it was hard to be focused on one thing. I wasn’t exactly sure what I wanted for colors yet and I was being a little indecisive. I posted different ideas in a group chat, and they seemed to be getting a little annoyed including her. They wouldn’t respond or post anything on there. I just couldn’t make my mind up right away, so many ideas options etc.

So then I just decided to give it time and didn’t say anything to the girls until I knew what colors I really wanted. Finally, a few weeks later I posted I’m the group chat my colors and info on where to get the dresses from and it was all good. However, I noticed that my MOH became distant, and starting talking to my FSL. I just found it a little rude that they wouldn’t even reach out to say hi to me, but they always liked and commented on each other’s stuff, but any thing I posted or said they didn’t acknowledge. My FSL actually told me that they were in a separate group that, saying how they are afraid to disagree with me because they don’t want to make me mad, and they don’t even want to be in the wedding, and I was put in the group by another BM and my MOH was saying stuff to my FSL saying how she doesn’t want to be in my wedding, I’m making it harder than it has to be, that she should be worrying and saving up for her own wedding, I was so hurt! Also saying she doesn’t have the money for anything, but bought a new truck.
I simply said if you don’t want to be in the wedding then don’t, so she said have a nice life and blocked me off everything. I gave it a few weeks and went out of my way to apologize to her and said it is not worth loosing a friendship over. No response. My wedding doesn’t feel the same anymore , and I’m just depressed over all this.

Anyone go through a similar situation?