Need some advice please. Our wedding is about two weeks away and we just sent in the final headcount for catering. Here's some background information for the situation.
FH's parents divorced when he was a freshman in high school and his dad remarried by the time FH graduated. This marriage meant FH had a stepbrother, and while they're not the closest, they get along well and FH chose stepbrother to be a groomsmen. Stepbrother has a half sister and they share the same dad. Stepbrother's mom (AKA FH's Stepmom) is very close with the half sister and thinks of her as a daughter.
Now in the last 6 years of my fiance and I being together we have spent some holidays/celebrations where the half sister was included. Maybe about a dozen times in total? She's nice, however, FH is definitely not close with her and doesn't think of her as family. We just found out that half sister assumes she is invited to our wedding and is planning on coming. We did NOT invite her. Nothing personal, but again we are not close to her and have tried to keep this wedding relatively small for numerous reasons. Pretty much only close family will be attending.Half sister mentioned coming to the wedding in front of FH's immediate family and none of them seemed surprised. In fact, they all acted as if they assumed she was invited. We didn't say anything as that would've been extremely awkward. However, now we feel as though we have to include her. I guess I'm just feeling really stressed and annoyed by this. I would never assume I'm invited to an event. Especially when it's this close to happening and I haven't received an invitation. So what should we do? Politely point out that she isn't invited? Just allow her to come? If so, do we need to change our catering order? (Catering is buffet style fyi)Any advice or support would be much appreciated. And sorry for the long post! Just really needed to get this off my chest!
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