My fiance and I got engaged last year then a few weeks later his younger brother also got engaged. We already had our venue picked out and paid for our deposit. The brother and his fiancee knew the date because we sent out an email to our closest friends and family with the date before we booked just to make sure the date would conflict with any of their plans. We got the okay from everyone. A couple weeks later the brother texts my fiance that they booked a venue for a month before ours which is fine since we all live pretty close. The issue is that his fiancee doesn't seem to be able to come up with her own ideas. His brother texted us that they picked their wedding colors which happen to be the same exact as ours. They knew our colors because we already picked tuxes and sent the info to each groomsmen so they would know well in advance and his brother is a groomsmen. His fiancee apparently loved the color so she picked the exact same color for her wedding. After my fiance told me this, I checked out her Pinterest since we follow each other and she has picked nearly identical centerpieces, bouquets, invitations, etc. to what my fiance and I picked. I have since made my wedding board on Pinterest private so that she can't see if I add anything else. I have talked with my bridesmaids about the color of dresses I want them to get, but since the wedding is still a year away none of them have purchased their dresses. I'm leaning towards changing everything just because I don't want to look like we copied their wedding since theirs is first. Any thoughts?
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