My sister will have just turned 16 when I get married next year. I would otherwise ask her to be my maid of honor, but she won't be able to plan or attend my bachelorette party and won't be able to plan a bridal shower. As my mom said, my mom would end up having to handle the planning.
My sister and I are really close, so I want her to have a special role in the wedding. Should she be my maid of honor? Or should I ask one of my best friends who can plan a bachelorette party to be my maid of honor?
I'm planning on asking my other best friend (who doesn't drink and wouldn't be a big bachelorette planner either) to be my matron of honor regardless, so she can be the one to sign the marriage certificate either way.
